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mrpenguin
February 7th, 2009, 04:13 PM
---If this is in the wrong section or to discriptive sorry - please don't close this I need an answer (I'll edit it!)---

Hey there haven't posted in a while,
This Girl, lets call her K, have been friends since we were like 6 or 7 and were way distant cousins I believe and is showing an attration to me more now then ever before but first I'd like to say this is quite long so please just skim read or something so lets start from the beggining...

2-3 years ago:
She asked me out and I accepted and we went out for an hour then I had to break up with her cause my other friends would make fun of me however we remained strong friends so I told my friends and they made fun of her and now this story has suddenly been brought up by my other friend to others around school however its not like really big news so thats okay!!!

1-1.5 years ago:
---QUITE DESCIPTIVE---
Now I was in hers and we suddenly played dares (Note this: she doesn't play dares with other people usually but she did with me) and it was little at first like hugging and kissing eachother on the cheek then touching eachothers arses and then touching her tits (with clothes on) and her touching my penis (with clothes on) and then she decided to turn the light out. So we played a different game and so she took my hand and she'd touch it somewhere and I would have to guess where it was first it was like her head, arm or leg but then it was her arse, tits or vagina (still with clothes on) and then she would cover my eyes with a sheet and still have my hands then she'd take her top off and have me rub her tits with her bra on (I didn't mind this at all) then with her bra off like grabbing or rubbing/massaging the breast then grabbing the nipple rubbing the top then pulling out then taking her nickers off and me rubbing/massaging her arse then she'd put them on again and she got my finger and with her nickers on pull it up her vagina in and upward direction. This happened for about 2 or 3 days just inviting me in then we'd have sexual play (I suppose) and then it stopped, I enjoyed this and this would cause my dick to dribble fluid and to this day I still want to do this.

1 year ago:
Every so often we'd make random videos (Non-Sexual) and whilst I was under a sheet or looking away she'd pull her shirt down to the camara so you could see her bra or pull her trousers/leggings down and show her nickers I would only find this out after watching the video and she would, only sometimes, not show me these bits.

Last 6 months:
She'd keep showing me her bra and would get on top of me or on my back, we'd have play fights and she'd bring up sexual references.

Last Week:
Well I was around a friends with her and she kept getting on my back then I got a headache and so she gave me a head massage and back massage for like 5-10 minutes then she suddenly got her bra out to show me its colour and then she decided to talk about her nicker colour and then she fell over and as I was getting her up she looked up my shorts (didn't mind as shes a close friend) and then she put her arm around me during Bridget Jones Diary (jokily I think.)

Now heres my question, Is she attracted to me or want attention sexually or normally, I do like the attention and I know how to get to the stage of where I was fondling/ exploring her body and I want to actually see her when I am doing this. I want to go a few more steps but do not know how to get there or whether she'll like it and I want to see if she'll accept sexual acts like fingering and ect

Viral Death
February 7th, 2009, 04:34 PM
I really do think that she is into you and just tell your friends to mind their own buisness and if you want to get into the next stage I would confront her or ask her

(I think that you are pretty lucky)

Also same with the fingering I would just wait to see what she is going to do ask her out and have some fun and you will figure out if you will get to finger her. If not then I would talk to her and get her opinon on you questions

mrpenguin
February 7th, 2009, 04:51 PM
Thank You for the Very Good Advice - I shall slowly start then see what happens plus half-term is coming up which is the perfect chance to speak or ask her about her feelings towards me and I suppose I am pretty lucky!!!

Please if there are other things people want to say, go ahead I will be very appreciative!!!

Viral Death
February 7th, 2009, 06:55 PM
Your welcome hey if you need anymore help with this situation you can talk to me I will be happy to help you

mrpenguin
February 7th, 2009, 07:01 PM
Thanks!!! :)

TAC1
February 7th, 2009, 09:56 PM
Those ppl i really wouldnt consider them "friends" more or less like aquaintances. I think she has a very strong passion about you and just tell her how you fell and see what build up from there.

Viral Death
February 7th, 2009, 10:36 PM
Hey I would also get a condom also just in case this girl wants to have sex :yeah:

mrpenguin
February 8th, 2009, 03:51 AM
Those ppl i really wouldnt consider them "friends" more or less like aquaintances. I think she has a very strong passion about you and just tell her how you fell and see what build up from there.
Good point it weren't fair what they did to her.
I'll talk to her soon I think! :)

Hey I would also get a condom also just in case this girl wants to have sex :yeah:
I dunno about this but if she does want to go that far I'll be ready and I'll use a condom!

Thanks, Both of you, For the Comments!!!!

byee
February 8th, 2009, 04:37 AM
Hi Daniel,

I think it's important to remember that girls are sexual, too! They have the same feelings, needs, and urges that we do, it's just a little different, but the drive behind it is really the same.

So, your friend is exploring her sexuality with you, and expressing it as well. This is all Ok, just be aware where it can go, and stay in control. Also, remember that the more sexual you get, the more emotions get stirred up, and that can have a rather dramatic influence on the relationship, so stay in control and keep thinking, eventhough it might be hard (no pun intended) to do so.

mrpenguin
February 8th, 2009, 04:53 AM
Hi Daniel,

I think it's important to remember that girls are sexual, too! They have the same feelings, needs, and urges that we do, it's just a little different, but the drive behind it is really the same.

So, your friend is exploring her sexuality with you, and expressing it as well. This is all Ok, just be aware where it can go, and stay in control. Also, remember that the more sexual you get, the more emotions get stirred up, and that can have a rather dramatic influence on the relationship, so stay in control and keep thinking, eventhough it might be hard (no pun intended) to do so.
Thanks for the very good advice,
I understand that if we stop being friends then it can happen be bad and I'll try to stay in control of my actions and feelings aswell as thinking of what could happen when I do something.

Talia
February 9th, 2009, 08:30 PM
You said you think she's a distant cousin? If she is, even though it's distant it still seems weird to me. I couldn't really say where to go from that.

mrpenguin
February 10th, 2009, 02:48 AM
Although I say that my mum and dad don't think we are related at all (not out of hate just like were plainly not related.) So I dunno about that!!!

triplethreat40
February 11th, 2009, 11:44 PM
Well, if she did those things and wasn't majorly into you, she isn't the type of person you want to be in a relashionship with.