trouble with my gf

[WelshLad]

ive been goin out with her for about 2 months now. at first we always used to see each other and like make out a lot and it was really passionate but now when I see her, its like she's not excited to see me. we hardly kiss anymore - im lucky to get a peck on the cheek (its not only about that)... its just i dont feel like she likes me anymore.

when im talking to her on msn and she goes, shes just like "bye" and signs off staright away, where id be like "byeeeeeeeeee xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx" and wait 4 her to reply before going offline, you know what i mean?

i don't think i've done anything wrong and she doesn't know i feel like this

she supposedly liked me for about a year but never brought herself to asking me out. i really hope sum1 can help me becoz i really like her and can see us havin a future together.

[*BrokenInside*]

Talk to her about it.. Maybe she just need some time to her self.. i know that something when you get into a relationship you see each other too much and sometimes that can casue some problems... Just giver her some time.. Dont worry about the little things like her not saying bye to you the way you would like.. You need to make her feel comfortable around you.. Good Luck..

[rock_ur_sox]

Seriously talk to her about it. The same thing happened with my past relation ship and we realized that we really don't want the relationship and that we only want to be friends.

[TreKool]

She has probably come to the conclusion that your relationship is no longer worth it....girls think way differently to guys.

The most important thing is to talk 2 her about it.


Good luck dude :wink: 8)

[WelshLad]

How old are you?

And btw, maybe she's lost interest. :-|

i'm 16 1/2 and she's 15 1/2. how cud she lose interest so quickly, she's fancied me for ages. thanks for the advice so far guys but talking to her is easier said than done.

[WelshLad]

im absloutely positive she's not PMSin coz she had her period like 2 weeks ago and im pretty sure shes not depressed or anything but ill talk 2 her 2moro just to see if anythings on her mind

[There_Goes_My_Life]

She may have lost interest in the relationship... I don't see how people can do that... You should really talk to her about it... I know you've probably heard this millions of times but "Communication is the key to a healthy relationship." You are 16 and she is 15, which means you are both probably still in the 11th and 10th grade... High Shcool is way too young to be thinking into the future, that's very hypocritical however on my part because I am looking for the one... but still, high school is way too young... you both have quite awhile before you need to be thinking about that... try after or during college?... so anyways, like i tell all of my friends, If it's meant to be it will work out in the long run... good luck with her!!!

[WelshLad]

i didnt mean future future - like kids, mortgage and a dog. i just meant us being together any longer

[OCD4ME]

well hey .. im a girl and i know waht u are going thru im having the same troube with my boifriend...i think you should ask her what is going on and if she wont participate with the question then slowly drift away from her but not totally if she has feelings for you she will want you back.. :roll:

[WelshLad]

she's coming over soon so i'll see how it goes. thanx guys :)

what's ur name OCD4ME?

[*-tick tock-*]

there are lots of reasons why she could be like that

1. she could be losing interest
2. maybe someone (a friend) told her shit that makes her all weirded out... (hey, its possible)
3. shes depressed in a way..
and theres more..

talk to her about it and try to see if yal can work it out.

[WelshLad]

yay - she came over and it went great. She seemed in a much better mood. We haven't done much (physically) but she showed me she loved me by a bit of dry humping while making out like we used to. I won't talk 2 her unless things get bad again but thanx anyway guys :D

[*-tick tock-*]

well thats good.. wish ya the best of luck :)

[WelshLad]

cheers :D