would this be ok

[phish]

I don't know if I am gay or not but for now I like guys. I really want to have sex to you think it would be ok to have gay anal with another guy my age?


Someone felt like making this one thread so this other thing is asking about my sexualty..

I like gay porn about the same maybe a little more to masterbate to but get this if I was just sitting there looking at porn I would rather look at girls on a normal day. I don't have feelings for ether sex at the time. I really don't want to have sex with a girl I want to be banged by a guy and vice versa so badly but I really don't care about having sex with a girl. And I think straight sex is kinda weird it is just to normal at least I would want to have anal with a girl you ever know what I mean.

I just don't know???

When making two threads that are nearly the same thing, within say a couple hours of each other, please only make one thread, or if you think of something later, edit and add in the new info. Thanks!
~Shattered


By the way shattered they are not at all alike one I was asking about my sexualty and one was regaurding random sex.

[sunsings]

how old are you? it is up to you if you want to but make sure you use a condom and be safe! make sur he has no std's and make sure toyu are ready to lose your virginity

[Random_oso06]

well it is important to know your age first

[Bougainvillea]

I'm not gay but have had sex with a guy
friend. You choose if it's okay for you.

[phish]

13.


I just want to so badly.

[Random_oso06]

well it's your hormones that make you want it bad since your starting puberty you'll get raging hormones that make you want sex

[Bougainvillea]

The best thing to do is wait. Try to find that someone too. :)

[phish]

I just can't do that errrrr. Also I started puberty 3 years ago.

[Random_oso06]

well your still in puberty and even in you age your hormones still will rage mostly throughout puberty it will stop though

[phish]

WHAT STUPID ASS MOD DID THIS THESE WHERE SEPRET POSTS ASKING SEPRET THINGS!!!!!!!

I was asking for sexualty info not random sex info on the other move it back!

[nick]

If you feel that strongly about it then why not. But you need to be very sure, if you find someone to experiment with, that they're really ready too & you're not pushing them into anything

[Lifeguard18]

Make sure first. Peronaly I think it is normal because I use to feel and still a little feel the smae way.

[Oblivion]

WHAT STUPID ASS MOD DID THIS THESE WHERE SEPRET POSTS ASKING SEPRET THINGS!!!!!!!

I was asking for sexualty info not random sex info on the other move it back!

Changing or reverting an edit made to your post(s), signature, or public profile by an administrator, global moderator (including counselor), or moderator is not permitted. Violating this will be seen as contempt towards a staff member.

Please. Don't edit it again.

As for merging the threads, I explained it completely in the edited post.
They are generally looking for information on the same thing. You can always ask two different questions in the same thread- making multiple ones is just a waste of space, and spam.

And finally,
Public display of contempt towards administrators, global moderators (including counselors), and moderators is prohibited. Violation of this may be seen as trolling if the violator already has a reputation of trolling; otherwise, violation is known as contempt towards a staff member.

If you have more questions, feel free to PM me.

[byee]

Couple of things, Phish. First, attacking Nick isn't warranted or particularly wise, he is someone with a lot to offer you. Poking him in the eye isn't the best way to get it, though.

Onto your dilemma.

I think the issue for you isn't so much a sexual one. Reading your other posts about stuff like your 'Dying' to try LSD, etc., really indicate to me that you have a lot of very powerful urges, and that it's hard to really control them. So, I think the task isn't so much to go about gratifying them (or looking to us to give you permission to do this stuff), but rather why you have these urges in the first place, why you're experiencing these desires. You want to do things that are pretty extreme, things that have considerable risk. Why is that?

We all have urges, but we also have some self control. And judgement. All those things work together to help us decide what's good to do, and what's maybe not so good. But for you, it seems like it's more the urges and impulses, less the judgement and control. I think instead of just 'Wanting', you might spend some time 'Thinking' and discovering why you need this stuff so much.

[ShatteredWings]

Um.

Simple terms
NO.

You're thirteen. That should be a big flag that says "don't rush into SEX". even if you're *sure* you're gay (which, i doubt), you're way too young.

can't answer the second question, sorry.

[phish]

Can we just move this to qustion number 2.

[Oblivion]

By the way shattered they are not at all alike one I was asking about my sexualty and one was regaurding random sex.

Ok so they are both about sex, they are both in the teen sexuality forum, and they were posted within 9 minutes of each other. Posting them in the same thread makes everything easier.
And its not a huge deal. You aren't in trouble or anything.


And as for your second question;
You sound normal. Anything sexual will turn most people on. Gay, straight, or bi, the thought or act of sex is pleasurable.
Being gay is what's on the inside; the feelings that say 'Hey, I want a boyfriend that i can talk to, and share emotionally with. I want end up living with a man and adopt kids with another man, and love every second of it'

[phish]

Ok so they are both about sex, they are both in the teen sexuality forum, and they were posted within 9 minutes of each other. Posting them in the same thread makes everything easier.
And its not a huge deal. You aren't in trouble or anything.



Being gay is what's on the inside; the feelings that say 'Hey, I want a boyfriend that i can talk to, and share emotionally with. I want end up living with a man and adopt kids with another man, and love every second of it'


I don't really under stand that.


I don't know I would like a girl friend but the idea of a boyfriend I just like somehow. Maybe it is just me always wanting to be a out lire. The only reason I would want not to be gay would be because I could not have kids. Maybe I am gay. Just the idea of having a girl friend and having vaginal sex is to normal and not apeeling. I saw a gay copal at starbucks and they where touching each others faces and I was just like I want that.

[Oblivion]

So ask yourself;
Other than the kids issue, do you like men physically? Emotionally? Sexually? Mentally? Or is it just a curiosity phase?

[phish]

So ask yourself;
Other than the kids issue, do you like men physically? Emotionally? Sexually? Mentally? Or is it just a curiosity phase?



Emotionally that is where I am stuck I am stuck at home all day and have not ever liked anyone. There is one girl I might like her I have to get to know her ha what am I saying I have known her for 9 years but I don't see her much at all anymore I have not seen her in months.

[Oblivion]

So you like males sexually, physically, and mentally?
You can envision yourself 30 years form now, happily married/with a male?
If so, I would say you are gay or bi.
But again i read you are 13? You can change a lot during puberty.

This can help a lot too! (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=18215)

[byee]

I think at 13 it's too soon to determine much of anything.

The best way to find out who you are (generally) is to get out there and experience life and yourself in it in as many different circumstances as possible. You need some experience, some data. Get out there, make some friends, and see how it all feels.