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Jack0700
February 6th, 2009, 05:25 PM
Ok so there is this girl i like in my class and there is a dance tonight. I was thinking of dancing with her and maby asking her out. but one of my freinds was talking to her and here is their conversation:
My freind: hey r u going to the dance tonight
Her: ya is Jack(thats me) going?
my freind: ya
Her: well then i might not go
I really dont know what to do so can anybody help me? I'm really confused and idk what to do!!! should i still even ask her to dance????

iceyfresh
February 6th, 2009, 05:54 PM
ok well ask your friend to see if she likes you or not either way go to the dance. you never know you might meat a beter girl. No Worry's theres a person for everyone and maybe she isnt yours you will be fine no matter what though. You can just ask ehr to the dance also if shes no then its not the end of the world. Good Luck

AllThatIsLeft
February 6th, 2009, 05:54 PM
no, she is obviously not comfortable with you. i would lay back, and maybe she talks to you in her on. but don't force your company upon her

IAMWILL
February 6th, 2009, 07:19 PM
Well there's actually two sides to this. Good and Bad. 1st off, she might not be comfortable with you yet, or thinks your kinda different. BUT, she might also be really nervous to be with you so shes not going. This isnt a bad sign, because it means she likes you. I would go to the dance anyway, have a fun night! And if she shows, observe how she feels and if you want to, ask her to dance. If she smiles but says, "Ummmm... im kinda tired or i dont really wanna" etc than its not a good sign. If she smiles and kinda laughs and says "maybe later" this could be a good sign. And if she says yes then your good.

Jack0700
February 7th, 2009, 01:38 PM
ok i went to the dance and we danced twice and both of us where comfortable, i can see this becoming a good freindship or a good realationship! thanks for ur help!

Antares
February 7th, 2009, 05:34 PM
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