I give up

[phish]

I live with the 2 lazyest people that do not even bring in the mail take out the trash I mean the fridge hot water heater and down stairs heat are all broken. I have to do everything around here and I fucking give up.

[Halibut]

have you talked to them about it. i wouldnt give up. show them off

[zoig]

I take it ur in a houseshare? What r ur options about moving out etc?

[Rutherford The Brave]

I live with the 2 lazyest people that do not even bring in the mail take out the trash I mean the fridge hot water heater and down stairs heat are all broken. I have to do everything around here and I fucking give up.

I just want you to think about this, yeah they maybe lazy but what happens when you have a baby and your spouse is at work? Are you going to moan and groan when that happens? Believe me your better off just doing the stuff and getting over with it, less complaining, caus if you don't do it; then nothing will get done. Tell them that, it should work.

[phish]

NO NO NO it us my brother and mother both careless ass holes some times my brother leaves the window open in jan and says it's hot in my room fucking turn down the heat then my mother dose not work all she dose is bitch at my dad for not giving her enuff money you should be luckey you even have a ex that would do that you fucking lazy bitch get a job she go's around saying "I'm one of those un empleyed people" yeah for the last 20 years. And for god sakes when I want to do anything they screw it up I try and clean the kitchin now it is dirty again a week later nothing. And I get bitched at all day everyday for one thing or another. How would you like to spend all day everyday with one person. She bitchs about being fat then go on a damn diet she bitchs about my dad not giving her enuff money I think 30,000 and year no bills is not bad that is just to live off of not any bills and she some how burns threw that. She keeps me from going to school so all god damn day I sit here wasting away she bitchs to me about everything. Alllllllllllll day everyday and she dose nothing at all but sit in her room and bitch.

[byee]

You can't pick your family.

Two choices (in life, generally): First (and probably best) is to come up with a way to discuss your concerns with your family and hope they respond. Second choice is to acknowledge the futility of changing them (or at least having them listen), and develop coping strategies to survive.

Childhood is temporary, your dependence on them isn't forever. Acknowledge that they're not going to be able to respond to your concerns, and let go of it. Come up with ways to deal with that (and them), and move on, find other people who are more responsive to you and look forward to the day when you're done with them.

[phish]

[QUOTE=IAMSAM;440875]You can't pick your family.
your dependence on them isn't forever.




I know it's over I make my own money and I might aswell live alone I shop alone I do what ever i normally do alone and my mother dose not do anything to stop me from doing anything I do.