Most effective way to get over someone

[Reaper]

So from experience what is the most effective way to get over someone?

I think about the said person every day but I know I cant have them, and its incredibly painful. Its putting me in a bad mood and I have lost motivation to make any effort during the day. I have never had to get over something like this before, and in my current state I cant see myself doing it very fast.

Help!!

[Willy]

Be around positive people and be active.
If you're around positive people then hopefully they're positivity will rub off onto you.
Be active and do things that are productive.
TRY, not to think about that person even if it's hard.. there isn't really an easy way to do it though.
Just takes time and positivity :)

[Donkey]

Yeah as Willy said, be very social. And I mean irl not on the internet.

Oh and watch some Jeremy Kyle. It makes your problem look nooby. Always.

[AutumnDae]

You're going to feel sad, it's inevitable.

You've given yourself time to be sad, good. It's alright to feel sad about something like that. Go to be tonight, or whenever, and say to yourself "Tomorrow I am going to wake up, and not feel upset about this anymore. I'm done feeling sad." Then do it. You gave yourself time to feel sad, now move on. yea, it's going to be a bit hard. but don't leave yourself alone for too long. Make some plans with your friends, go see a movie, play video games, do whatever guys do! Have fun!

[Halibut]

ya i have had teh same problem for five months..and its my own fault

[Trickster]

Your going to feel like...well like a piece of u has been ripped out. an effective way is to be around people, be happy and see the lighter side of things.
My best stragedy of getting over someone really is meeting someone better. But not right after. Give it some time and when u feel like u can fall for someone go for it and u will be over them in no time.