how do i decided beetween 4 girls what one i shouls ask out

[spartan117]

really like 4 girls the same amount and cant decide what one i should try to ask out

i really like them maby even love them

Please don't double post.

[Willy]

The one you like the most.. but if you like them all the same, I wouldn't ask any of them out.

[Oblivion]

Please don't double post. Used the edit (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/images/buttons/edit.gif) button.
Moved to relationships and dating.

[AllThatIsLeft]

this real? idtso

[spartan117]

ya it is real i cant decide im goint to go crazy

[Oblivion]

So what you do is, you either find out who you like best, or you wait around not asking any of them out.
Charting good/bad qualities actually does help... :P

[AllThatIsLeft]

it is impossible to like 4 girls as strongly at the same time. you must like one more than the others. or maybe u don't like neither of them, but you just like liking them.

Before you do anything sort out how you feel, and for whom. then the answer will be clear

[spartan117]

ya i do like one a little more but i know i will probably be made fun of by every one in my class they will know because the girl is in my class >:( so frusterating

[Oblivion]

Why would they make fun of you?
Wouldn't they expect the girl to be in your grade?

[AllThatIsLeft]

this is where you weight your options. which one do you like best, but which one is more approachable.

try getting to know them better before you think of asking any of them

[spartan117]

ya she is in my grade but most of them pick on me a bit and a couple beat on me mind u i try and get them back so that doesnt bug me and i think she is out of my leage and she never talks to me

most of the people in my class pick on me i mean

Again, do not double post please. Use the edit button

[iceyfresh]

simple look for good conections.

[Halibut]

i think you need to rethink you idea of love!

[LaLa]

wooah... four people? that's definately quite a few... well, i dunno about you, but if it was me personally i don't think i would choose any of them. i think maybe i would take some time to think by myself and sort out my feelings, but that's just me.

[Stark]

Think about their personality, and whichever one has a better personality, choose them. But if you evenly like their personality, then may I suggest a random guess.

[dyslexiaa]

I've been in this situation.

Pick names from a hat.

Life is too short to look for love in high school, just have fun with it. If it doesn't work, date the other ones. Get as much experience as you can now, don't hold back.

[Cindex]

I don't think I'd make it quite that random.

Pick which one you have the most fun with, and just ask her. If she says no, wait a few days and ask the next. You aren't going to want to look for a bride quite yet, so just have some fun!

[JMAN333]

ask them all out

[BuryYourFlame]

ask them all out

NNNOOOO!!

sorry, JMAN333, but this is the main thing that you should NOT do. It will only end up causing problems for you and for the girls that you like.

I would suggest the one that you are most comfortable around, the one that you can tell anything to, i am beginning to regret not making this decision myself.

I hope that you choose the right one.

Dec

[Donkey]

I agree with Declan.

[nick]

Well its all or none. Perhaps you should find some way to get to know each of them a bit better to help so decide who to zoom in on.

[GiZzLe]

(fwend) I think you should just try to find out which one likes you. to know, jst watch if they r lookin at u alot, and if they act weird around you, like loose track of themselves. it is kinda wierd how u "LOVE" four girls at the same time, but i mean, hey, wutever
(real user) *doing homework*