My love life Sept-Now confused

[grock]

Hmm so confused first of all and anyone who reads this rocks lol.

Uhh...here goes a little info.

There's this girl and last year wore glasses first of all. Its a new school year and got contacts. New kids and all. We are friends and we talked a lot she went out with some other guy broke up with him and she started liking me, yeah I liked her but never told her, never knew she LIKED me until October when she finally told me but she didn't anymore. I had feelings for her in November same as this other NEW person I told her to ask him out since I knew and she did they went out and he broke up with her for unknown but she still liked him. Its Jan and they go out again and sometime around the 15-20th he broke up with her because he found out one of his exes was going into his classes. He asked that girl out and are going out right now. He has no feelings whatsoever for the other girl anymore but I still like her, but I don't know about her, she kicks my shin every once in a while, she barley talks to me except on Myspace where is the only place she actually opens up to me. My friend for no apperant reason asked her out for me today and said nothing...What should I do and how should I do it to win her over? Thanks.

[Halibut]

she sounds hurt and insecure

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

First of all, she JUST broke up with her last boyfriend. Give her some time to get over that.

Second, if she doesn't seem to be talking to you a lot these days, try to work on your friendship before you try to turn it into something more. Try to hang out with her outside school (and in real life). Don't make it seem like a date, just hang out as friends. In a group, even. Once you're closer again, as friends, you can try to drop some hints and see if she take the bait. Don't try to rush into it.

And thirdly: You might want to clarify that you didn't ask your friend to ask her out for you. She probably thinks you did, so it'd be good to make sure she knows what really happened.