How Can I Tell Them????

[Lifeguard18]

How can I tell my parents family ad friends that I am bi without them hating or getting mad or upset? I don't want to loose all my friends because of this and I want my parents and family realize who I am so they can still talk to me? I have bi freinds and everyone accepts them but I'm not like them. How can I do this without all of that happening????

[NightHawksr71]

How can I tell my parents family ad friends that I am bi without them hating or getting mad or upset? I don't want to loose all my friends because of this and I want my parents and family realize who I am so they can still talk to me? I have bi freinds and everyone accepts them but I'm not like them. How can I do this without all of that happening????

Are you sure you want to come out to everybody you know? as that could cause some problems for you at home and school.

IF your sure you want to. it might be best to tell one person at a time, the people you trust the most. If that works out fine, you can keep telling people until you are as confident and as comfortable with people knowing as you can be.

either way, I wish you all the best and good luck

[Θάνατος]

I would not be in a hurry to come out and tell them. One thing you could do is drop hints until someone figures it out.

I know when I came out it was not the best thing to do.

Good luck but I feel it is best to wait until you are older.

[Requin]

How old are you??
I'd say wait a bit first. Even if you think you are bi, I would still caution against coming out just now. Leave it until your older and are not laden with the hormones.

But whatever you choose to do, good luck.

[Furn_93]

Well, my advice is don't tell until you're ready. And, when you are ready, tell someone you really really trust, then slowly tell your friends. If they judge you , screw them, because friends just don't do that (speaking from my own experience of this).
You don't have to ever tell your family, if you don't want to that is(I never have) Bisexuality is apparently very common in teens and so by the time your older, you may be straight again, so you would have put yourself through a lot and could end up regretting it.

Basically, wait until you're comfortable with yourself, and until you're ready to tell someone, before you tell anyone.

Hope I helped.

[TurboDieselBandit]

'Furn 93' has some good advise. You will not lose any friends when you come out, you will only lose the ones you thought were your friends. It is a good thing to lose the people who are not really your friends because they are narrow minded people who are just along for the ride as your friend. As for your family, if they have a ounce of maturity they will accept you for who you are. Your parents are obligated to love you unconditionally and if they cant do that then they have lots of work to do on the inside.

Come out when you are good and ready. Don't doubt your self and don't be ashamed. If people cant handle the truth thats there fault NOT YOURS.

[Lifeguard18]

'Furn 93' has some good advise. You will not lose any friends when you come out, you will only lose the ones you thought were your friends. It is a good thing to lose the people who are not really your friends because they are narrow minded people who are just along for the ride as your friend. As for your family, if they have a ounce of maturity they will accept you for who you are. Your parents are obligated to love you unconditionally and if they cant do that then they have lots of work to do on the inside.

Come out when you are good and ready. Don't doubt your self and don't be ashamed. If people cant handle the truth thats there fault NOT YOURS.

Thanks so much

[mr.sexy_bomb]

just tell them and yeah