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meaghanlovesu
February 4th, 2009, 07:52 PM
sorry if this is in the wrong place


ok so when i was 11 i was playing with my yonger friends and we were playing hid and seek. i was looking for a place to hid and a guy asked me to come help him with some thing and he would pay me 10$ i said no and keept walkin he grabbed my arm and pulled me towerds his car i kikked him and ran and tolled my mom. i spent a year in theyipy. one day i was pulled out of class to look at pictures and i pointed out the guy. turns out he is a rapist, well to get to the point i saw a guy that looked just like him. ever cence that i cant sleep at night how do i stop thinking about him.
iceyfresh
February 5th, 2009, 05:59 PM
ok you need to go back to your theripist and honostly i dought he is going to come in your house and rape you. ull be fine No Worry's
The Batman
February 5th, 2009, 07:11 PM
Things like this aren't easily forgotten and they are hard to deal with. I think that you need to find a way to get past this maybe going back to the therapist is a good idea.
byee
February 9th, 2009, 03:12 PM
(Gee, that's quite an avatar!)

I agree with my Bud's Axel and Thomas here: These things are not easily forgotten. When they interfere, it's a good idea to go back to that therapist and work it all out.

When really bad things happen, we remember it, it stays up there, and often make their presence known when we're reminded of it, even if it's many years later.

Tell your folks, call the doctor.
Sapphire
February 10th, 2009, 08:14 AM
:hug3
I am truly sorry that you went through that and are still experiencing the effects of it today. I can sort of relate with your situation and it won't ease if you don't have some support to help you through this. I know that it can be difficult to open up about or deal with things like this. But it is only through dealing with it that you can heal and live happily.
Beautiful Obsession
March 19th, 2009, 05:26 PM
well your going to be struggling. of corse you are.You hav been through alot. You proberaly neva saw the guy as he was proberally locked up after that. but i would go back to the therapist and talk about your problems. xx good luck xx