advice please :D

[Halibut]

Well jordan dumped me . he said our relationship was to physical when we have gone out a month and done it only 3 times. and he was teh one that wanted to have sex. the first time he tried it with me i said no and he is always the one doing the stuff to me and he said it was to physical so i dont get it. and it hurt at the moment but i realized later he was really immature.. but anyway

so there is 2 people im intrested in. before jordan i was kinda seeing this guy raine but it wouldnt work because he does not like long distance. but today we talked again and he said we would talk about it .

then thhere is this guy jeremy i met him through a friend. and then we saw each other at the bowling alley and hit it off and couldnt keep laughing . he is so funny and makes me laugh and he is cute. but he is deaf and it does not bother me infact i think he is such a amazing person for it and i really like him. like gosh he is funny and so cute . i just smiled at him and he lit up :D

so what should i do

[Mzor203]

We really can not tell you what the "right" thing to do is, since there really isn't a right thing to do in a situation like this.

You can't really predict how either relationship would turn out. But, you've only known Jeremy from that one time you went bowling is what I'm getting from this, which means you probably know him a lot less. So if you do decide to go with him, get to know him first, so you actually know what you're getting into.

As for Raine, if he isn't comfortable with a relationship in which you two are distanced, then even if you do hook up things might not go incredibly smoothly. Just think about that. If you think you can keep it together, great.

So, really you just have to listen to your heart, as corny as that sounds, and go with who you think would work out and be better for you. Keep us updated!

[Halibut]

no i have hung out with him a few times it was just during bowling that we really hit if off

[Mzor203]

Ah, I see, that was confusing me. Still, is "hanging out with him a few times" really enough to judge him on? Personally, I think that it takes more time than that to really get to know a person enough to think about dating them. You may start to have feelings for them, sure, but I don't think it's quite enough to go by. Still, it is your choice, and whatever makes you happy is good.

[Halibut]

well i definitly plan to get to know him more its just i felt something and i know we both like each other but ya i do plan on doing that for sure.