how long, is too long to wait?

[gwendolyn]

sorry, i dont know how to delete posts?

[byee]

Weeeelllll........this might hurt a bit, but I don't intend it to be mean, OK?

I don't think this is a 'Gay' or 'Straight' issue, I'd say the same thing regardless of the genders involved. But, as long as someone else is involved in a relationship, they're not available to you, and it's best to remember that and protect yourself from *those* feelings.

Move on. If she becomes available, that's a diff story. Until then, cast your line in another part of the pond.