hey

[myspace]

there is this girl that i really like and tehn really hate

she is soo similar to me one day and the next i really try to not like her but i cant i dont want to like her but i dont want my friend to have her


what do i do

[Requin]

Hang on. Do you hate her, or do you want to hate her?
There two different things.

So you do like her, but you don't want to like her?? Hmmm, any particular reason?
If you like someone then surely it's best to get to know her more and eventually lead to asking out etc.

A little more info would help. :-)
Thanks.

[theOperaGhost]

I've been in the situation where you like someone, but you don't want to like them before. It's not fun. There is really no great way to solve this. Maybe decide what you like about her and weigh it out with what you don't like about her. Are you just physically attracted to her or are you emotionally attracted to her? Are you so similar to her that maybe being friends would be better than more than that? Sometimes it is not good to date someone so similar...as they say, opposites attract.

[Requin]

Maybe...you could just give it time. Maybe you only like her (echoing Jared) physically or emotionally????

So just go with the flow really. See what happens and take a back seat, but talk to her more actually. Just chat, nothing flirty, just talk.
See how you feel.

[Triceratops]

Hang on. Do you hate her, or do you want to hate her?
There two different things.

There's a really good point.
You should think about that one.