I need Advice...

[kuyerjudd_v3]

Okay, so there's this girl at school. I really, really like her, like, she's all I can think about. It's been 9 months now since I told her that I like her. I've tried almost everything that I am capable of to try and get her to believe that I really do like her. Talk about 67 poems, a thousand-worded ballad, and a four hundred-paged novel.

And when I decided that I wanted to give up on her, I ended up--for a month or two--cutting myself, over and over again; but stopped eventually. I remember there being a time when I almost wanted to force myself into being gay--or bisexual at the least:D--but nothing. I try forcing myself into other girls, but still its the thought of her that constantly piles up in my head.

I'm the sensitive type of guy. You know, the short, feeble, un-hot guy. I'm not a jock or anything, I'm just me.

Valentine's day is my last shot at this, so I can't mess anything up. I don't know if writing the entire thousand-worded ballad on a roll of tissue paper is sweet or just overly corny; maybe even sick and twisted, in a way.:lol:

I need advice. I don't know whether I should give up on her or not. I either need need help on how to get over her, or how to make her heart melt...

[Axellance]

It really sounds to me that this girl isn't that interested in you, i know its hard to hear but you need to realize that so that you can start to move on. That's really all you can do at this point, move on with your life. Find someone else to love, it really does no good to love someone who doesn't feel the same way about you, all it ever does is making you sad. The sooner you stop letting your self think "I can't mess anything up" and just stop perusing her the sooner you van move on. Sometimes its not meant to be, I'm sorry man.

[Θάνατος]

Yeah I agree it is time to move on to a hew girl she doesn't seem too interested in you.

[triplethreat40]

Now if I got a ballad on a roll of tissue paper, I would throw it at you and run screaming. :)You don't want to creep her out with all of that emotion. If you really like her, there is not reason why you should have to give up on her. Maybe she's not ready for your adoration, but if you can just be a good friend for a while, maybe she'll come around. Chivilry goes a long way, but lay off the love poems. I know tons of girls that would probably give an arm and a leg for a guy who writes her love poems, but it seems that she's not ready for that.

Or perhaps you should take you admiration from such an ungratefull girl and try it on someone who would appreciate it.

[Halibut]

i think you should move on. and become more confident. remember there is always more fish in the sea