help

[ninersfan]

I'm 16 years old and I feel like I'm ready to have sex.
The only thing is, I'm really insecure about my penis size.
I am somewhat of a late bloomer and didn't develop pubic hair until about a year ago and I still don't really have any armpit hair, a couple of strands at most. Thing is, I'm pretty tall (5'10"), but my stage in puberty doesn't rally seem to correspond to my height. I really want to have sex, but I just can't get over the fact that I just don't feel secure about my penis size (6.15 inches) and no armpit hair.

[Mzor203]

First of all, this belongs in puberty just so you know.

Second of all, if you're insecure about your body, no, you are not ready to have sex. You are not ready to have sex until you are both physically and mentally ready, and that mean being secure about your body, as well as being able to handle the emotional side of sex, and any bad feelings that may come of it.

Your penis size is pretty much average, maybe even above for your age, so that you don't have to worry about at all. Secondly, everyone develops at different rates, and just because you don't have armpit right now doesn't mean it won't be coming. Everyone develops at different rates, so your armpit hair will be coming.

Wait until you are secure with your body before having sex. That way it can be an experience where you don't have to be worrying about what your partner will think, and you can just enjoy it.

[Axellance]

If you cannot feel secure about your penis, among other things you are probably not really ready. Think of the complications involved in that one encounter. I would wait if i where you, you really should because at 16 most kids are not ready for sex! The way i look at it is before you have sex you need to be ready to handle the worst outcome, pregnancy. At 16 you are not ready to be a responsible father and therefore should wait imo.

[ninersfan]

I think I am gonna add more to my question.
I haven't been sexually active all that long, only hookedup with a girl for the first time about 1 year ago. Since then, I have been with many girls. Some have just wanted to hookup, but some wanted to do other things. During those other encounters, I always felt embarassed about getting a blowjob/sex but not giving the girl's oral sex. Afterwards, I always regret not getting a BJ, but when the opportunity comes, I can't get over my stage in development/penis size. What should I do?

[Θάνατος]

Well if you are engaging in any sexual activity you should feel confident about what you are doing or you are not mature enough to handle the situation. Your penis size is fine.

For a person who is having sex you don't sound to confident about what you are doing.

[Θάνατος]

First of all, this belongs in puberty just so you know.

Second of all, if you're insecure about your body, no, you are not ready to have sex. You are not ready to have sex until you are both physically and mentally ready, and that mean being secure about your body, as well as being able to handle the emotional side of sex, and any bad feelings that may come of it.

Your penis size is pretty much average, maybe even above for your age, so that you don't have to worry about at all. Secondly, everyone develops at different rates, and just because you don't have armpit right now doesn't mean it won't be coming. Everyone develops at different rates, so your armpit hair will be coming.

Wait until you are secure with your body before having sex. That way it can be an experience where you don't have to be worrying about what your partner will think, and you can just enjoy it.

I agree you need to wait to have sex until you are mature enough to handle.

[Axellance]

I think I am gonna add more to my question.
I haven't been sexually active all that long, only hookedup with a girl for the first time about 1 year ago. Since then, I have been with many girls. Some have just wanted to hookup, but some wanted to do other things. During those other encounters, I always felt embarassed about getting a blowjob/sex but not giving the girl's oral sex. Afterwards, I always regret not getting a BJ, but when the opportunity comes, I can't get over my stage in development/penis size. What should I do?

You are not fully gown and everyone develops at different rates, just chill and let it come. Worrying about the size of your penis isn't going to make it grow any faster.

[BeautifulSilence]

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[special666]

Sex shouldnt be the first thing to do with your gf (if you have one).
If your insecure and have done other things with your gf then she would of already left you.