There's this girl but...

[zackF.]

There is this girl I like a lot, but we a pretty good friends. Sometimes I get the felling she likes me (we sleep together when we all stay at one of my friends house but not like sex) but I am never really sure. I always try to get a few words in with her everyday between classes at least once, but it seems like it's not enough. What should I do and how should I act? All help will be appreciated.

[nick979]

Are you shy?

I'm sure if you just talked to her about how you feel, she may feel the same way...if you've slept together (even on not a serious basis) then she obviously feels comfortable around you...

Just talk to her!!

There is this girl I like a lot, but we a pretty good friends. Sometimes I get the felling she likes me (we sleep together when we all stay at one of my friends house but not like sex) but I am never really sure. I always try to get a few words in with her everyday between classes at least once, but it seems like it's not enough. What should I do and how should I act? All help will be appreciated.

[Mzor203]

Well it seems like what you're doing is a pretty good start. Just keep on talking to her, becoming friends, etc. When you're feeling more comfortable, start trying to do more things with her. Ask her over to do something, maybe do homework once in a while together, etc. And then when you're really comfortable around her, ask her out to a movie or something. That'll get things going pretty well.

[zackF.]

Are you shy?


Yea I am pretty shy which sucks. I just don't want to screw things up and yeah I know got nothing to lose or whatever. I'm taking her best friend to prom (just as friends) and my good friend is taking her to prom as friends as well so I think if I tried to go out with her everyone might just get pissed off at me. Or maybe I am just extremely pessimistic.

[nick979]

You seem to be pessimistic, like you pointed out.

You really just need to come out of your box, your comfort zone. People won't get pissed because your social life is not theirs. If they do, just ignore it...it all blows over with time.

Easiest thing to do is talk!

Yea I am pretty shy which sucks. I just don't want to screw things up and yeah I know got nothing to lose or whatever. I'm taking her best friend to prom (just as friends) and my good friend is taking her to prom as friends as well so I think if I tried to go out with her everyone might just get pissed off at me. Or maybe I am just extremely pessimistic.