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nceric92
December 23rd, 2005, 10:46 AM
I'm 13 and have jerked off together with my best friend a couple times and well I liked it and whenever I do it by myself I start to think about him or other boys naked. Does this mean I'm gay? Please I don't want to be gay I already get made fun of a lot and my dad says that being gay is against nature and God's plan. What should I do?

redcar
December 23rd, 2005, 10:50 AM
dont be worrying you are only 13 and have raging hormones its way to early to label yourself as anything. wat you are doing can be seen as experimenting, many str8 guys do that and they are not gay. its just about growing up.

and even if you were gay its not the end of the world. your dad makes it sound so bad, its not.

as for wat should you do, do wat ever makes you happy. dont worry about am i gay? is this wrong? enjoy yourself and do wat you want ignore wat anyone else says.

Dante
December 23rd, 2005, 11:33 AM
you are still very young.....ur hormones r flyring all over......you might be gay, you might be bi, but it sounds like you may be curious, which is fine.....do you like girls?

Aηdy
December 23rd, 2005, 01:34 PM
could you see yourself living with mem or women?

December 23rd, 2005, 02:16 PM
could you see yourself living with mem or women?

thats tyhe question ur going to have to ask urself..if u like men or women better

WelshLad
December 23rd, 2005, 06:25 PM
To be honest, i've imagined jacking off with my best friend and guys have opped into my mind a few times but i'm straight and have a girlfriend. These guys are right, once puberty's over, i doubt you'd think about it much any more

nceric92
December 25th, 2005, 08:04 PM
could you see yourself living with mem or women?

thats tyhe question ur going to have to ask urself..if u like men or women better

I dunno I mean I think about girls a lot but I really like hanging out with boys better and I never had a girlfriend or done anything with girls before. When can I know for sure?

Trademarked
December 26th, 2005, 12:47 AM
you can know for sure when your in your older teen years, like eighteen or nineteen.
maybe fifteen or something.

if you're twelve or thirteen, it's all purely in what you decide. go with what you feel.
if you feel your gay and could see your self with another man, the you might be.
in the teen years (as many have said before me) hormones are raging and you might be asking yourself if you're gay for a while.

kolte
December 26th, 2005, 05:53 AM
I'm 13 and have jerked off together with my best friend a couple times and well I liked it and whenever I do it by myself I start to think about him or other boys naked. Does this mean I'm gay? Please I don't want to be gay I already get made fun of a lot and my dad says that being gay is against nature and God's plan. What should I do?

if your gay you would know it deep down. And your dad sounds like a republican, so I would become a gay democrate just to piss him off, and while your at it, become buddhist, thats the ultimate burn to your daddykins.

OCD4ME
December 26th, 2005, 02:39 PM
ok so i may not be gay but im bi and as much as it kills me it realy isnt that bad... but then again you are only 13 like the others said its probly hormones just wait and see...

hope all goes well

sencerly the girl with dog tags

nceric92
December 27th, 2005, 12:07 AM
:lol: Thanx for the advice but my parents aren't divorced