im confused

[Burnthecity]

So last night i went to this party, just a few people, and we just chilled, nothing special, i ended up hanging out with this chick, and we kissed, we sat there holding each other, it was almost love at first sight, but thats not possible

love at first sight is just a made up thing

love is something that has to grow

anyways, i spent all last night thinking of her, and just wanting to be with her, i got 4 hours of sleep because i kept waking up thinking of her, now

what do i do, how would i approach this situation, i know half the replys are just gonna say, get to know her better, i know that, and i want too, but how do i approach her about this

[byee]

"Love at first sight" might be a made up thing, Lou, but that doesn't mean you cannot feel intense feelings for someone new (even if it's not technically 'love').

So, although it seems like you already know the answer ("give it time"), maybe what you're really asking is "But how do i tolerate that?". It's hard just sitting with intense feelings, so there's this need to try to figure out what's going on and just move to that level ASAP. But, in so doing, you often make mistakes.

So, my saged advice is to just sit with it and spend time with her and see how it develops and what eventually hppens. Eventhough it's not as precise as 'Knowing', eventually you really do, it becomes clear what your (and her) feelings are, even if they're never spoken.

Dating, meeting new chicas, is fun. It's not a race, it;s like a pleasant drive thru the country in July: Put the top down so you can experience as much of it as possible, and go slowly so you don't miss anything. Eventually your arrive at your destination.

[Burnthecity]

Thanks sam, this is starting to make more sense, i appreciate it

[triplethreat40]

As cheesy as it sounds, I believe in love at first sight.

If you don't know how to approach her, just pop up behind her, hold a banana to her head and say "don't move". The point is something funny and adorable. It'll usually spark a conversation, and then you can ask her out or whatever. Don't make it over emotional, but then don't deny that anyting happened either. It sounds like things happened pretty fast, so try not to come on to strong. Get to know eachother better, and have fun with it!

[Halibut]

maybe there is such a thing as love at first sight. dun dun dunnnn.