I don't know what to make of this...

[teendude_1991]

I feel so confused. I'm attracted to girls on a mental, spiritual level, but only the thought of naked guys sexually attracts me. I cannot, excuse the language, get hard thinking about a girl. Whats up?

Ever since I can remember. Um...when I was around eight, my cousin and I were on a pallet in the floor about to go to sleep, and he stuck his hands down my pants and rubbed me, and then took my hand and let me rub his, and I remember liking it. I look at guys packages constantly at school, and I have been for about all four years of high school. I mean, there are girls I would like to date, but the thought of them sexually does nothing for me. However, I could see being with a guy in a relationship, but I don't know if it would be all about the physical or not.

[Mzor203]

How long have you felt like this? If this is simply a new development, it could easily be hormones, but if it's been going on longer than that, it could be something more deep and complicated than that.

Usually if you only have feelings towards guys sexually, it doesn't mean a ton. Everybody gets curious during puberty, and this could simply be a slightly odd side effect of that. If you have no feelings towards them mentally, however, then you aren't "gay" in a strict sense.

Get back to us on how long you've felt like it and we might be able to help more.

[grimlip]

i felt the same way, i ended up being gay =P

[Halibut]

that is normal for both genders to go through that. and very normal

[FearForMySanity]

I know that feeling. It is confusing. I've pretty much accepted my homosexuality but I still feel kinda how you do. Good luck to you.

[akapustka1796]

I know that feeling. It is confusing. I've pretty much accepted my homosexuality but I still feel kinda how you do. Good luck to you.
Same here

[gazazi1997]

Don't jump to any conclusions yet. You're still growing up. But for now...go with the flow