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heartbroke9887
January 29th, 2009, 05:13 PM
Okay so my friend has been ignoring me and has been hanging out with

another girl and it bothers me so much because she tags along with

EVERYTHING that we do!!! Its so annoying.

I cant talk to her, because I will hurt her feelings (I know, because I have told

her((the tagalong girl)) that she follows us everywhere.)

I'd feel so bad if I tore their friendship apart (which is NOT what I want to do)

It would be great if I could get some feedback...

uhh... thanks.

Gumleaf
January 29th, 2009, 05:19 PM
moving - white padded room >>> family & friends

Mzor203
January 29th, 2009, 05:24 PM
I think the only thing you really can do in this situation is talk to your friend and express to her that this is bugging you. Be kind about it of course, just simply tell her that you think it's interrupting your friendship, and that she can still be friends with her, but that maybe it would be better if they did stuff together at other times.

There really isn't any other way in this situation than to address this problem directly, so this is going to involve some talking to her, but always make sure to not make it sound like her being friends with this other girl is a bad thing, or else she might get angry. Just explain why you don't like it.

Good luck. :)

AllThatIsLeft
January 29th, 2009, 05:47 PM
its all about balance!

sharing is not bad, and just be patient with the girl.

Donkey
January 30th, 2009, 04:13 PM
Why not build a friendship with this girl and maybe you'll get along better, I don't think there's many other things that you can do in this situation.