is it normal...

[ishytbricks]

is it noral to find pleasure in having something shoved into your rectum. alittle bit over a year ago, i had gotten into an ancounter with a close friend. he had came on to me and i agreed. we started making out and he ended up shoving a his two fingers into my...well you get it. the thing is...
I enjoy haveing sex with girls;; Am i gay?:confused


-Joey

[theOperaGhost]

Moved to Teen Sexuality.

No, you are probably not gay. You don't have to be gay to find pleasure in anal stimulation.

[ishytbricks]

Okay cuz i really pleasure things up my but it gives me a wonderful feeling. i plan to do it soon. Can you do it with anything?

[Oblivion]

A lot of males get a good feeling when their prostate is stimulated.
Just because an almost form of almost gay sex feels good, it by no means indicates you are gay.
Being gay is how you feel inside, not what feels good physically.

[ishytbricks]

Okay thanks. cuz i have a girlfriend and we have been seeing eachother for 2 years and ithings are going great.

[mnbvcxz1890]

no your not gay you would know in your heat if you were gay , you were just trying different things out

[PuppetPrince]

you just like the feeling basiclyy,
doesnt mean your gay.
gay is when youre *attracted* to the same sex.

[NightHawksr71]

Okay cuz i really pleasure things up my but it gives me a wonderful feeling. i plan to do it soon. Can you do it with anything?

No you can not do it with anything. the skin tissue there is very sensitive. you need to be careful.

No it doesn't make you gay.

[ishytbricks]

Ohhh;; its okay to use your finger though.
Right?.

[byee]

Joey, search my last posts for 'version 3.0', I answered the 'Am I gay?' question nicely there, it might help you.

If you insert anything up there, be veeeery careful, b/c those parts aren't made for that, and the tissues are very delicate and tear easily. And b/c stool is loaded with bacteria, if you rip/tear/rupture or otherwise bruise yourself you can get a really bad blood infection.

It's a myth that massaging the prostate causes a more intense orgasm. The prostate is merely a gland which produces a fluid during ejaculation. Poking it only irritates it. Guys who say otherwise are responding more to the increased excitement in their head (as in brain) caused by exploring, touching, etc, and the mildly pleasurable sensation of rubbing the external anus.

[mattman942]

i see nothing wrong with it if it feels good and it wont hurt you do it i tried it once or twice but not my thing

[Oblivion]

Ohhh;; its okay to use your finger though.
Right?.

As long as its clean, and your fingernails aren't sharp, and you are careful.
Remember to wash your hands afterward.

[nick]

It feels really great. Keep an open mind, make your own decisions. You really need lube though, even with finger

[caseman91]

be really careful about anal stimulation man...i've heard of people getting infections because they scratched themselves... i like the feeling too man but it is VERY important that 2 things occure
1) it doesn't make u feel akward to do it... if it does simply stop doing it
2) ur clean about it, just to avoid the infection problem
apart from those man, have a ball.. and no it does not make u gay

[nick979]

No, it doesn't make you gay...but: be careful!

Oral sex also leads to STDs...also, they say that the HPV virus (which nearly everyone will come into contact with by age 20, if sexually active), can cause throat cancer. This means a penis was inserted into your throat.

But, Anal please IS more pleasurable. They've proven this and it isn't arguable. The prostate gland is the second site for sexual stimulation, also known as the Male G-Spot. It probably isn't as pleasurable as some describe it...but it does provide a bigger orgasm--don't try and argue that.

Remember, anal pleasure is also very dangerous. You can contract STDs from that (but not commonly just from using fingers/objects). The safest way is using sex objects...since they are designed for that or a similar purpose. Using your finger can lead to Staph infection. This can be deadly...or just annoying. If you chose to use a finger, wear latex or non latex doctor type gloves. Use Lube. and wash your hands BEFORE and AFTER the procedure. NEVER use a Pencil, pen, or other object which is not intended for the anus. Another thing you can get is sometimes referred to as "leaky butt". It is where you ruin the anal muscles. The anus is meant to push things out...not receive things in. Eventually, the sphincter will be unable to hold poop...and may result in additional issues.

[eikookmi]

Nah. A lot of people feel pleasured through their anus

[grimlip]

i actually know some straight guys that like to have anal done on them...
you might be bi, you never know, just wait it out

[Halibut]

no there is alot of nerves there and the guys g spot is there so that is normal