Confused

[nick]

Hi, first post so be gentle with me,

Very confused. Can't stand the thought of anything gay but not turned on by girls at all. Have wet dreams always about f***ing girls (older actually) but when awake am only interested in guys. Yeah I know you'll think I don't wank if I have WD, but its not true, I wank plenty but it doesnt stop the WD,

Anyone else feel like this? Is this gay?

[Furn_93]

Well, its hard to tell. Do you feel anything for boys normally?

No it isn't gay at this age. Kinda normal for people to go a little horny over weird things.

[nick]

Christ I'm horny over everything. but whilst I only ever WD over str8 sex, and its very itense & I can dream things way beyond what I've ever experienced, when i'm awake I'm only interested in dicks.

[sunsings]

gay is when you are emotionally and physicly attraction to members of the same sex... if you are only physically attracted to guys then you are not gay (well you could be) but you would be more likely to be curious. ecspecially since you have dreams about girls... so i would say you are curious!

[drew31793]

I agree with sunsings

[byee]

We're a pretty gentle bunch, no worries here!

Your question is really THE most frequently asked one by guys, if you search some of my more recent posts i think you might find my 'Version 3.0' answer helpful.

[HidekiErikku]

YOU ARE FINE....until you start getting close to a guy, in hopes of "getting" him, then you are strictly curious and leave it at that. It will help you shake your Paranoia about this and such.
:)

[Stark]

It's normal.

[aid821]

Hey Dude you've hit that age where your interested in everything thats put in front of you. i was exactly the same, when you discover something about boys and girls, your natural reaction is to want to explore more into it, if that makes sense. at the moment your natural reaction is to fulfill your curiosity towards guys, but what is happing is your sub-concious is telling you through your wet dreams that you are indeed attracted to girls and that you want to explore guys for the time being. it's not neccesarily 'gay' as in time you'll discover what really interest you, and what pleases you most. also it's a natural feeling to become curious about other guys and what they do. hope it all turns out well! :)

[iceyfresh]

First of all there is nothing wrong with being gay but from your decription you sound as if you were a bi sexual. nothing wrong with that either man. could just be hormones either way No Worry's bro.