What do I do??? HELP!!!

[Viral Death]

Ok this girl wants to have sex with me so I said yes but I dont want to be a dad and I dont know how to get a condom to stop that. What should I do?????:confused::confused::confused::confused:

[radboi]

go buy condoms

[nick]

Hey, don't know how things differ in the us, but in the uk its easy to pick up condoms from slot machines in the toilets at road service stations. Not sure that you should go along with a girl who just wants your cum or to exerience sex however, take care !

[sunsings]

basically you have 3 options:

1) have sex with her with out a condom (bad idea, so this really is not a option)
2)have sex with her and but i condom from the local drugstore or get one from a gasstation bathroom
3)just say no and dont have sex(i recommend this one!)

[Skeln]

Ya, if you really want to then get a condem. Even if you buy it from a store in frnt of a bunch of people, it's ok. They'll ind their own besiness (usually) mostly because they think it's better that you're practicing safe sex. Either buy a condem or dont have sex. And dont try to make something into a condem! That never works, so just buy one if you really want to have sex.

[IAMWILL]

If you really want to have sex with her, next time you are near a clinic or medical facility, ask if you may use the bathroom. Inside there should be a jar of condoms sitting on the counter, and if not, it should be inside a cabinet or drawer. (sorry If I spelled drawer wrong, I honestly don't know how to spell it.

[Viral Death]

Thanks alot I will say no to her tomorrow

[pontiacdriver]

Thanks alot I will say no to her tomorrow

In light of your telling her "no" it is probably a moot point to discuss the condom issue, but I will throw my two cents in for the future.

As a rule of thumb, if you or your partner cannot get access to birth control be it condoms or pills, then it is generally not a good idea to have sex. I would say that since pregnancy is one of your biggest concerns at this point you need to have a very clear and correct understanding of your girlfriend's periods. What I mean is that you need to know exactly what time of the month she ovulates so that you won't have sex with her at the wrong time. If your girlfriend is new to puberty herself, then keep in mind that periods for girls new to periods can vary until they finally find a more permanent time once the girl matures physically. As a result, if your girlfriend's periods are irregular, then you are playing Russian roulette having sex with her as she could theorectically ovulate at different times. As mentioned in the post below there is always the issue of sperm being in a girl for a little while after sexual intercourse, and strictly relying upon when a girl ovulates is not a good idea at all. It is far safest for your girlfriend to be on birth control if pregnancy is your concern.

Another factor about which you need to consider with any sexual encounter is STDs. Keep in mind that condoms only protect you from fluid borne STDs and you still have to worry about skin-to-skin transmission of STDs. If you cannot approach your parents to go to the doctor due to STD complications, then having sex is a bad idea.

Even wearing a condom is not full proof as they can slip and break, and you need to have a back up plan if your girlfriend is not on birth control. What I mean is that your girlfriend should know where to go for Emergency contraception (Plan B) if you accidentally should ejaculate into her. If your girlfriend cannot go to a Planned Parenthood or anyplace else that offers Emergency Contraception, then it is not worth having sex.

I think Albertson's is the big supermarket/drugstore chain in your State, and to my knowledge they have self checkout lanes. If you really want to buy condoms, then go to the family planning/feminine hygiene aisle where you will find the condoms. You can use the self checkout lanes to buy the condoms, and there is no age limit to buy them. Just make sure that you and your partner don't have an allergy to latex as using regular condoms would be a non starter. If either of you have allergies to latex, then buy polyurethane condoms. If you can use latex condoms, then make sure to buy lubricated ones as those will do the job. Getting the fancy ones with ribs, studs, etc. really is not needed as the basic ones will do the job. Trojan is probably the best, but Durex and Lifestyles will do the job.

Finally, sex is a really big step, and just make sure you are doing it for the right reasons. Don't have sex just to fit in or because everyone else is doing it. There are plenty of folks who wait well into college or beyond to loose their virginity for many reasons. If pregnancy and family expectations are an issue for you, then holding off for sex is probably your best bet. Remember, you are not a freak for not having sex.

[Skeln]

Ok, the whole knowing what time of the month a girl ovulates thing, ya not the best idea. Actually, don't even rely on that! Sperm can live in a womans uterous (sorry if I spelled wrong)for up to a week! So even if she has not ovulated when you have sex and you ejaculate iinto her, then they can wait a whole week. Really it comes down to this, if you and your girlfriend are not prepared to have sex and just want to for the pleasure, then dont. Sex should be something between two people who truly truly care for eachother and will be together for a long time, not a few months to a year or two. If you really want to have sex, then use a condem. You don't want to possibly ruin your life, and for sure cause your girlfriend serious problem both pysically and mentally.

[TurboDieselBandit]

I'm not here to preach to you but I sill say that you should never have sex until you are married and condoms don't work all the time. Simpily tell her no, you have your whole life ahead of you to have sex. So wait.

[Archer600]

just buy some condoms. Besides if u don't have the balls to buy them what makes unthink ur ready for sex. Don't be a pussy

[Viral Death]

Well if my grandparents found out I had condoms they would kill me they check my pants all the time

[Trav]

then dont leave a condom in your pants..

[monkey]

if you pull out a drawer you can put condoms there put drawer back in, pretty nifty huh. gas station just ask counter if they dont have in bathroom.

[MRcongeniality]

get this girl to get some pills, she will know what sort to get...
Morning after's or 12 days would be best...

[lol123]

yeah dont have sex..no offence but if u dont have the SACK to go buy some condoms you wont have THE SACK to have sex with her

[Trickster]

When u buy a condom people will look at u like ur responsible or something. Teen buy condoms all the time. Its not like u need photo I.D.
Step 1: Enter store
Step 2: Go to condom and birthcontrol section
Step 3:Pick it up
Step 4: Go to checkout counter
Step 5: Purchase them (Ask them if they are the best to stop pregnacny and STDs too. They will know what they are talking about)
Step 6: Walk out of store
Six easy steps to a healthy sexual lifestyle.

[staying_alive]

Yeah dude just go get a condom. No reason to feel ashamed. Don't just tell her no because you're scared to get a condom, man up, get a condom, and go for it!

[mattman942]

go to a gas station and go to the bathroom and buy condoms there are only like one or two in one of those gas station condom packs so you wont get caught just throw away the extras if there are any, or before you ejaculate pull out right when you get the urge just be careful

[zzip7]

DO NOT rely on pulling out, there is sperm in precum! Also most guys can't bring themselves to pull out in the moment... Just go get the condoms

before you ejaculate pull out right when you get the urge just be careful

[IAMWILL]

Please do not bump old threads, they died for a reason.
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