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MonsterMan
January 26th, 2009, 10:37 PM
Ok welk i have this frend and shes my bestest frend in tue entire world and ive recently been "falling in love" with her. Shes always in my mind and thinking of dating her. When i see hee its like looking at an angle. We have a lot in common.this could be raging horemnes but i really want to date her. Is this just a littlle crush or hormones?

Sumitup
January 26th, 2009, 10:46 PM
Well, normally if you start out as friends, it is difficult to get to the point of dating that girl because you are friends. However, if you pursue it enough by sending subtle hints and flirtatious remarks, it could work out. All of this depending on if she can or has developed feelings for you.

MonsterMan
January 26th, 2009, 10:53 PM
Like i want to date her but if she dosent like me back or when we break up ill feel akward and depressed btw dont think i said it before i am 13

theOperaGhost
January 26th, 2009, 10:55 PM
Moved to Relationships and Dating.

MonsterMan
January 26th, 2009, 10:58 PM
Ok thanks didnt kno where to put

L
January 26th, 2009, 11:03 PM
im in a simmerler situation, only with me she's not my best friend and she says she only wants to be friends. ur not alone... i have no idea what to do ether... :what:

MonsterMan
January 27th, 2009, 10:35 PM
Any more help

Wolf Teen
January 29th, 2009, 08:21 PM
I don't know what I can do to help but give some advise. This is just for me, remember, so it may not work for you.

Just get to know her. The guy that was my best freind I really liked. If you think that she doesn't like you back, just stay freinds. Even asking her out wouldn't be a problem, unless your afraid it will get akward. Which, trust me, somtimes it does. But don't worry. If she doesn't like you back, well, you still have a good freind :D

IAMWILL
January 29th, 2009, 08:28 PM
I have the same situation but it just ended :guillotine: TRUST ME, Valentines Day is coming up soon. Go on a date/hangout with her. If you feel confident with your relationship, kiss her at the end, or do something that will remind her of you. Talk to her a little more often and mention things that are more daring than normal. Or, follow this quote: "A person that never took a risk never tried anything new". -Albert Einstein

byee
January 29th, 2009, 10:57 PM
Awww.....another one of these, I just love love! 'Angle'.......*smiles* (even if it' spelled 'Angel')

OK, regardless if it's hormones or a little crush, your feelings are real, and you should act on them by asking her out! Maybe ease into it, start by hanging out with her and spending some time with her, nothing heavy.

a lot of guys freak themselves out with that ancient guy-thing fear of rejection b/c they go with the very formal and very official (yet totally meaningless) 'asking out'. A relationship is defined by feelings, not words. Spend the time with her developing those feelings and the words you use to describe it are irrelevant!

Awww!

MysticalBurrito
January 30th, 2009, 07:25 AM
i agree with sam ask her out!!

Donkey
January 30th, 2009, 03:26 PM
Do whatever you feel comfortable with, but also consider her feelings and don't rush into things. Give it a little time, see how she feels when you get closer to her... and have fun :)

Stark
February 6th, 2009, 01:34 AM
Probably a bit of both.

Halibut
February 6th, 2009, 04:51 PM
could be both but it depends how old you are.
when you with her do you just want to kiss and do stuff with her
or do you just want to hold her and look into her eyes and stuff.
or is it both
because if its the second or third one then ya i would say you really like her but if its the first one then i would say just hormones