Couldn't Do It...

[tkitty]

My girlfriend and I have been together for a little over 6 months now. She came over saturday to hang out, but it felt so special. She even mentioned it, and I agreed with her. We started doing sexual stuff all day. By that night, we were ready to make love. I kept an erection all day, and she stayed wet all day. But by the time we were ready to make love, I couldn't get a boner anymore and she couldn't get wet anymore...no matter how hard we tried. Is it just because we were doing stuff all day and maybe our sexual parts got tired? I don't know...please explain why...

[byee]

Anxiety.

Remember, the 'real' sex organ is the brain. if your brains aren't comfortable with the idea, it won't work. And, eventhough the urges might be there, it still might not be the right time for that brain. Sex is a big step emotionally, and it takes a longer time to feel comfortable emotionally than physically.

Back it down a notch or two.

[Trickster]

You can imagine destorying the 100 foot monstor but when u are faced u are crushed so easily. If u are nervous or having 2nd thoughts u will not keep it up. Try thinking of something stressful when u see something sexy. It wont stay up. You have to both be relaxed and ready and it has to be a good mood if u didnt do it b4. If it really is ur first time u should go all out, like music, candles, dim lights. just a nice mood. U can imagine and say anything but doing it is on a whole nother level