my lil' sis... AWKWARD

[drew31793]

Hey i am 16 and i caught my lil' sister, who is 14, giving her Boyfriend a blowjob. thats. i first started experiencing stuff like when in was 14. how do i need to respond to that (im not mad) so its not awkward for us to have a conversation?

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[Oblivion]

Just pretend like it never happened. Thats probably what she will do as well.

Oh sorry, I think I may have misunderstood.
Do you want to talk to her about it or just go on with life?

[byee]

That's a tough one.

Based on your understanding (and relationship) with your sister, do you think she is ready for this type of behavior? Can she handle the emotional consequences of it? Is it a good idea for her? What about the guy(s) she's doing this to? Are these wholesome relationships?

What you might have done or when you began is irrelevant, it's about her, and she's different. If you have some concerns, then you should find a way to privately talk with her and really share those concerns and issues with her, not so much in a 'mad, big brother way', but as a concerned sibling.

[pistonfan28]

I highly agree with Shattered.

[pontiacdriver]

Hey i am 16 and i caught my lil' sister, who is 14, giving her Boyfriend a blowjob. thats. i first started experiencing stuff like when in was 14. how do i need to respond to that (im not mad) so its not awkward for us to have a conversation?

:eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:

It can be hard to see one's younger sibling become sexually active, and the others are right this is a hard situation. On one side you can ignore what had happened, but on the other you probably cannot do so especially since you caught her in the act.

At this point, I think you are best talking to her and letting her know that you are not mad and won't tell on her. More than anything your sister needs reassurance, and you should let her know that there is nothing wrong with sexuality as long as it is done responsibly. It would be beneficial if you can talk about things from the guy's perspective and tell her about your pitfalls as well as successes so that she will be all right. My view is that since you know she is sexually active you should ensure that she has protection against pregnancy and is not being forced to do anything sexual. I think the best thing you can do is make yourself as resource person for her and let her know you are not there to judge her.

[L]

she most likily dosent want to talk about it, because that would be awkward, so just pretend you've forgotten about it and only talk about it if she brings it up. which she most likily wont.

[Θάνατος]

Just ignore what happened if your sister wants to talk to you about it then she will. All you can do is be there to offer advice and support.

[IAMWILL]

Well my opinion in this is kinda a mix between everyone elses. I wouldn't deliberately bring it up, but if she does, sit her down and talk to her. Warn her about the consequences of sexual activities, such as STDs and STIs. If you are fine with her boyfriend, tell her so and don't bother with anything else. If you don't like her boyfriend, talk directly to him. If anything happens, protect your sister and you should have the dominant position in the event

[Fusion]

i would forget what had just happened as other poster have said

[MisterAndrews]

What you might have done or when you began is irrelevant, it's about her, and she's different. If you have some concerns, then you should find a way to privately talk with her and really share those concerns and issues with her, not so much in a 'mad, big brother way', but as a concerned sibling.

I think thats a REALLY bad idea. I think the last thing anyones sister would want is to have 'the talk' with a BROTHER!! (of all people).

No, the best idea is to do what everyone else said. Dont mention it... forget it! If she brings it up then thats the time to voice a concern, but dont hunt her down. You're her brother NOT her father.