So I Need Some Advice/Info

[IAMWILL]

Hey Will again here with my 28th post, 12th started thread, and i have a little thing going on. Ok so one of my best friends (who in this post is going to be called #1) who i hang out with all the time was sleeping over at my house the other night (along with my other best friend who is #2). So #2 is my best friend, but hes kinda against any masturbation stuff or just like guy stuff that me and #1 talk about, so we kinda ignored him. When #2 fell asleep, #1 and i were just chilling, then we started talking about masturbation and other stuff, like sleeping naked. (btw i was in my bed and #2 and #1 were in sleeping bags on the floor). We were like just talking kinda, and suddenly he said "guess what ive been doing for the last 30 minutes?" i just calmy replied "what?" and he said hed give me a hint. He said "look down" and when i did he had took off his briefs and i saw his dick (which was obviously erect). I reacted calmly to it, just saying "wow i didnt need to see that" but he knows i dont care and its fine with me. Something like this has never happened to me, so i just wanted to know is this a sign that he might wanna masturbate with me, he just trusts me a lot, or is he just being weird. Were really good friends so i doubt much would ruin our relationship, but im fine with him being like this around me. Were not gay, because he has a girlfriend, and i am absolutely in love with a girl that i know really well (see my other thread in "relationships and dating"), but i think its good if were comfortable around each other. What should i do?

[Requin]

The detail wasn't needed btw.

But anywho....even if your both straight, guys in teenagehood have these curious feelings, or if it's not curiousness, some want to masturbate with their mates.
It could be a sign that he wants to. Some people see it as being fine, masturbating with friends.
Others do not, it can ruin or mess up a relationship. It may not remember, but this is a warning to be careful. :-)
Only do it with him if he wants to and you want to, if your uncomfortable about it..then DON'T DO IT.

[Furn_93]

The same thing happened to me.... apart from i'm Bi but wasn't out at the time, so had a different reaction lol

But yeah boys just do that thing. If he wants to masturbate with you it doesn't mean he's gay, it just means you're probably real close friends with him, and he knows you seeing his dick won't turn you on, so he's comfortable with it.

Hope I helped..

[L]

if ur that close then ruining the relationship is less of an issue, just ask him if he wants to and dont nag if he dosent. he probly would say yes anyway ;)

[byee]

hi again, Will. Cute avatar, btw.

OK, I think the 'lookie here' during teenage sleepovers (esp. at 13) are pretty common, it's the teenage equivalent of little kids "playing doctor", and for the same reason: There's curiosity and a desire to share and check out what the *other* has. Basically, normal and harmless. You're both developing and changing, and he wants to show you and see yours, it's a reassurance thing, it's a curiosity thing, and it's pretty normal.

Where it goes from there, of course, is not only up to you (and him), but is also a bit tricky. Playing show and tell with erections and masturbation can lead to *more*, you're both making it a public event, so it's an easier step to something mutual. However, there's things to consider here, like the feelings you'll likely have afterwards. Anytime you do sexual things with someone there's a risk that feelings get stirred up, it can be awkward, it can be embarassing, or it can be totally fine. The best way to know is to judge your (and his) rection when you guys 'show eachother'. If you're 'Like that was totally not necessary', you're telling both of you you're not interested. And, unless and until you are, it's safest to just leave it at that, he'll get the message.