i have. one. of. the. most sterotypical. personality traits. ever.

[ShatteredWings]

(apparently) i 'flirt' with everyone.

This is not intentional. at all.
Just when i'm talking with someone, i'll end up being practicly sitting on them. I often find myself staring into space if i'm talking..and i'm always playing with my hair or jewerly or something.

GR

Basiclly this is me, unless i HATE the person i'm talking to, or if they're an adult (obviously...*shudder* that would be beyond weird).


Er.. help? thanks

[Θάνατος]

Well you sitting on peoples laps in an invasion of personal bubbles. You should work on giving people their space. It is also rude to always be playing with your hair and your jewelry when talking to people. It makes people feel like that you really don't care to be talking to them.

[Axellance]

That is very common in girls, i see it all the time. it can become annoying but i don't think it is that big of a deal. just pay attention to the nonverbal signs people give and if they don't like it stop. It only becomes a problem when you cant take a hint. the hair and jewelry to me isn't a big deal some people just have to fiddle with something all the time.

[Requin]

I don't think it's 'rude' to play with your hair and jewellery all the time when talking. It's not....i don't know....considered right?? But it's not wrong or rude I believe is it?

Girls do this...some do it intenionally to flirt etc. But some like you just can't help yourself.
Maybe it's because you have a problem when in social situations...you need something to fiddle or play with (any rude thoughts about that...stop reading now), so you play with your hair etc.

Maybe you could try and concentrate a lot on what the person's saying...oh and the sitting on laps thing, is a def no no, with close friends I guess it's okay, but it is breaking people's personal bubble. Not all people will find it offensive or annoying though, but some will. :-)

[DarkWingedAngel]

I do the same it really starts to get on people nerves
like when im talking to someone i will play with my hair and everything
sometimes i end up playing with the other persons fingers
it's really weird

[Halibut]

Ya i find myself doing that too. but the important thign is that your aware of yourself doing it. Just think about it once your doing it or dont put yourself in the situation that you would do it

[ShatteredWings]

Erm.. there's my problem. i do it in almost every situation.. haha


minor clarification: I don't have a problem with my sexuality, -- frankly if you have one, fuck off -- i just don't really want to be practically wearing a sandwich board. lol

[heartbroke9887]

[QUOTE='[crazy]girl;432266'](apparently) i 'flirt' with everyone.

This is not intentional. at all.
Just when i'm talking with someone, i'll end up being practicly sitting on them. I often find myself staring into space if i'm talking..and i'm always playing with my hair or jewerly or something.

GR

Basiclly this is me, unless i HATE the person i'm talking to, or if they're an adult (obviously...*shudder* that would be beyond weird).[QUOTE]


Oh. My. GOD.

I have the saaame problem!
I will not intentionally flirt with a guy and their gf will be right by and she will get reeeallly mad!
and I dont even mean to flirt!

THANK YOU FOR STARTING THIS FOURUM!

I greatly appreciate it!

[liquid ice]

im a guy and i have long hair [ down to my chin] and when im watching tv ill play with my hair alot of times ill do it when im talking but im a huge like the biggest flurt [no computishion] i flurt with my friends moms,teachers,girls,even when im on the phone [curl hair] , on the internet all over the place ^what should i do to help me from doing it as much?^

[Trickster]

I have the same one. My name in Paris and im a flirtoholic. I will do it because its funny and fun. I usally ease back when im with someone. But i go out all out when i feel a relationship is dead or im single.
I usually have to fiddle with something like my wrist band or i twirl my hair. It not cuz im bored i just gotta do something with my hands is all. People dont usually take it offensivally because im like not giving a bored signal.

[ShatteredWings]

:P
Hey i'm not the only person who has this minor issue :D