A little problem.......

[IAMWILL]

Hey will again here with my 11th started thread and 27th post. I got a
Little problem/dilemma. So there's a girl that I'm absolutely in love with, who I know really well and we talk all the time, but I wanna become more than friends with her. We've kinda talked about this before, but not to much, but I know she loves me as a friend, I just don't really know if she has the same feelings for me. I tried to ask her about it kinda, but it was an off topic question at the moment, and she never really answered. I dont think a deeper relationship would ruin our relationship now, but it might be a little awkward after. I really insaney love this girl! And she means the world to me! Please help! Is there anything I can do to maybe be with her? Or be more intimate with her? Please help. Btw were both 13

[Gumleaf]

you say you kind of talk about it? maybe if you are that keen and sure of it working, that you stop beating around the bush and straight out ask her out? at least that way you would know one way or the other. but before doing this you need to really think about it because even though you don't think it would ruin your friendship, a bad break up might later on and if you love eachother as friends, then this would probably hurt you a lot afterwards. so just be sure of what you are going to do before you do it.

[byee]

Hello again Will with the 11th started thread and 27th post!

I think the easiest way to further a relationship is just to be with her and let it happen naturally and gradually. Continue to do whatever it is you're now doing, give it time, and have patience.

Due to over eagerness, many 'ask out' their Loves, and it sometimes doesn't work, b/c of all the emotional baggage that goes along with that question, esp. for young 'uns who don't have a whole lot of experience with 'going out'. So, my advice is to avoid the label, forget about getting meaningless 'clarification', and just read the signals. People who spend time with you and seem to enjoy you like you. Which is what you're looking for with the question anyway.

Take it slow and continue doing what you're doing.

[IAMWILL]

Ok then thats a good sign. Ill make sure i do that, take it slow and stuff, thanks for the info!