My bullying expirience

[JacobHerrington]

ive been bullied all my life.
ive been verbally abused
ive been puched
ive even been chocked.
in 8th grade id wear extra layers of clothes as armor(so to speak) so getting beat up wouldnt hurt as much.
the one question is
why me
did i desrver this?

[byee]

hi Jacob, I see you're new. I'm Sam, resident nice guy and papa bear.

To answer your rhetorical question, no, of course you did nothing to deserve being abused. There's never an excuse for that, regardless of what you've been told (taunted?), everyone has a basic right to live, and to live without fear or threat of being harmed.

I'm sorry this happened to you, and I hope it's over, that steps have been taken to keep you safe.

[ECGBUnni]

There is absolutely no reason for anyone to be bullied in any way at any point in time in your life.

Bullying is a true sign of the malignant nature that can permeate through human society. Young people that ostracize, harass, or even physically attack "outsiders."

Whoever hurt you, be it physically or mentally, is to blame for whatever damage s/he did. This person probably has other problems in his/her life and cannot cope with these problems in a healthy manner, so they attack you instead to get rid of these emotions. Other (weaker) people join in because they want to fit in. None of this is your fault, and you deserve none of that. You were probably a victim of convenience, and an outlet for a damaged kid's mind.

The best thing you can do is to talk to someone, anyone, about what happened, and perhaps, eventually, think of ways this can be avoided in the past. You were a victim, but you were far from alone, and hopefully others can be spared the pain of being abused.

I hope this helped in some way, you can always give me a PM if you wanna talk. Talking is always good.

[JacobHerrington]

hi Jacob, I see you're new. I'm Sam, resident nice guy and papa bear.

To answer your rhetorical question, no, of course you did nothing to deserve being abused. There's never an excuse for that, regardless of what you've been told (taunted?), everyone has a basic right to live, and to live without fear or threat of being harmed.

I'm sorry this happened to you, and I hope it's over, that steps have been taken to keep you safe.

Recently it has stopped. but all those years of cruelty have left a scar.
i have nothing left but a haterd of humanity

[byee]

I can understand your bitterness, you've been thru a lot, and victims often feel that way. I'm realy glad for you that it's over!

However, your task is to not allow the past to infect the present or the future. You have to put it, and keep it, in it's perspective, in the past. Not everyone in the Human race are bullies! Actaully, most aren't, it's just going to take you some time to learn to trust again after all you've been thru.

Take it slow, do what seems comfortable, but keep moving forward, even if it's really uncomfortable for you. By re experiecning that other side to humanity, the one you apparently missed, you'll not only feel better and more engaged, but you'll also keep the past where it should be: Far away from you.

[Beautiful Obsession]

no, its not your fault you didnt do anything to deserve this, people who bully are just jelous because they are obv really sad people who hurt ovas to make themselves feel good. You have just as much right in this world as the bully(s)

dont let them get to you. tell someone !

[Ladysman]

Im short and wicked skinny bad mix lol so i also like tech and talk about it tryin to stop so as to b less nerdy so to speak but anyway i get picked on for being short all my life but dont think about it im used to it just brush it off and go on wth your day

[Bryan B]

Im short and wicked skinny bad mix lol so i also like tech and talk about it tryin to stop so as to b less nerdy so to speak but anyway i get picked on for being short all my life but dont think about it im used to it just brush it off and go on wth your day

Im like you but I had never been bullied because of that, but I always act in a cold, direct way like if I don't care, so like that almost everyone respects me, I had never had that type of problems, but to achieve this you also have to lie and pretend to some that you aren't

[optimashprime]

ive been bullied all my life.
ive been verbally abused
ive been puched
ive even been chocked.
in 8th grade id wear extra layers of clothes as armor(so to speak) so getting beat up wouldnt hurt as much.
the one question is
why me
did i desrver this?

i know how you feel in primary school everyone in my year bullied me for 5 years so then i left but i got so bad i felt Suicidal but im afriad its life

[left footed mofo]

ive been bullied all my life.
ive been verbally abused
ive been puched
ive even been chocked.
in 8th grade id wear extra layers of clothes as armor(so to speak) so getting beat up wouldnt hurt as much.
the one question is
why me
did i desrver this?

I really don't know, maybe you did, i've never met you.
I think you've probably come out the other side as a better person

[Specter]

To be completely honest kids are cruel, the best thing you can do is put that all behind you and look forward. Those people aren’t nice, it’s not just you they’d pick on, bullies are a bunch of insecure kids that probably don’t have the same quality of life as you, even if they appear to be happy their not.

Man you sound like a really nice person, I wouldn’t worry about it.

Feel free to Pm me anytime. :)

[Triceratops]

I'm so sorry to hear that.

You don't deserve this, no one does. You seem such a nice person tbh and it sickens me that people would go out of their way to do such a thing to someone else.

Have you told anyone about this? Your parents, teachers, friends or anyone else? If not, please do. Suffering in silence is one of the worst ways to go when being bullied. They can help you sort it out, there are so many people out there who are nice, willing to help and are not bullies themselves!

Good luck. :)

[left footed mofo]

I'm so sorry to hear that.

You don't deserve this, no one does. You seem such a nice person tbh and it sickens me that people would go out of their way to do such a thing to someone else.

Have you told anyone about this? Your parents, teachers, friends or anyone else? If not, please do. Suffering in silence is one of the worst ways to go when being bullied. They can help you sort it out, there are so many people out there who are nice, willing to help and are not bullies themselves!

Good luck. :)

It was keeping quiet that stopped the bullies in my case