sex experiments

[hergirl]

hey, im new here and this is my first post so tell me if i mess up.

im also new to masturbation as i only just found out about it 2 months ago. well i knew about masturbating but i had tried and never gotten to an orgasm until 2 months ago. so i am inexperienced and new to this whole new sexual world and am thankful i found this forum and hopefully you can help me.

I've been dating this guy for a month and we were alone at his house watching TV when he suddenly pulled out his penis and started... i guess masturbating with it. i was so startled by it i didnt know what to do and he just sat there and looked at me waiting for me to do something so i gave him what i though as a blowjob.. ive only just herd about it and never really knew what it was. during it his penis tasted horrible and then suddenly he ejaculated in my mouth. i had no idea that this was going to happen and i gagged and almost threw up because is tasted so nasty.

after that i didnt talk to him for a while and i guess kinda broke up with him. but now in school im called like, i dont know, stuff and people are laughing at me because i couldnt give him a blowjob or swallow his sperm. and now i feel nasty and feel, well i guess dirty in a bad way. did i loose my virginity (i dont want to till im married) and is what i did like super bad. am i a slut now and is there any way for me to get an std or like get pregnant.

plz help im really starting to freak out

[AllThatIsLeft]

1. You have not lost your virginity. One officially loses one virginity when there is penetration (the penis goes inside the vagina)
2. You can not be pregant unless he cums inside your vagina.

3.How old are you, you sound very young.

other more knowledgeable members can answer your other questions.

[hergirl]

i messed up and put 14 when i created this account but im actually 13, however i have very little experience with these matters and am often excluded from conversations involving this subject,

[Maverick]

i messed up and put 14 when i created this account but im actually 13, however i have very little experience with these matters and am often excluded from conversations involving this subject,
I can fix that for you if you send me a private message with your DoB.

[Atonement]

A blowjob is pretty much what you described. One's mouth on a penis for stimulation

Now, you cannot get pregnant because the digestive track is WAY far from the reproductive track.

STDs, it is possible that you could've. It is possible. But unlikely, but still possible.

Virginity, really, its how you define it. Like, oral SEX is still sex to some, but some just see it as vaginal penetration.

As for people at school, if they harass you about it, it is harassment and they can get in trouble by the school or even police if serious enough. Talk to a counselor if its a big problem.

[Cloud]

dont put up with their crap just tell a counceler or something and thatll soon solve the problem of the harrassing.
u cant get pregnant from oral sex.
STD is possible yet extremely unlikely considering his age.
you are still a virgin because most people wil say that u need to be ppenetrated for u to lose ur virginity.


wanna know anything else or if you jsut want to chat just PM me

[liquid ice]

dont let them harass u in my state [vermont] u could go to jail for harassing/bullying becuase thires a kid and he got bullyed so much he killed himself so dont let it get to u and look on the bright side least u dont have to be around his smelly penis :D and if it gets out of control then see ur councerlers and prencible or talk to ur parents and theyll deal with it [ be the strong one dont let them be domain over u to make u feel bad] plus we all go througt it . and if your realy worried about the STI [sexualy tranmitted infection] then see ur parents and a doctor.

[byee]

Oh, yuck. I'm sorry you had this experience, especially as your first. Your 'boyfriend' was really selfish by doing this, esp. this way, and most esp. if he knew you were inexperienced.

OK, your q's: 1) Yes, you're a virgin. Until you have penis/vagina intercourse, you're a virgin. And, in most religions, you're considered a virgin (still) if the encounter was 'of unwilling or unintended participation'.

2) You can get herpes by oral sex, if he was infected. If you looked at his penis, you would have seen rather noticeable red, oozing lesions, open blister like things. If he was 13, too, though, the chances are probably low.

You've had a bad experience here, and not surprisingly, you're having an emotional reaction. Be extra nice to yourself, give yourself some time, recognize that he really took advantage of you, and you're feeling violated by this. The people at school are jerks if they're saying anything now, but most especially, whoever told them about this unfortunate experience.

Give it time, it will all pass.

[Halibut]

no you cannot get pregnant. but it is possible to get a sti .and some girls are like that while giving bj. i wouldnt be too worried. the people in your school sound pretty immature.

[Affliction]

no u cant get pregnant from a blow job but you may catch a STD and it was the first time you had done something like that so dont think u were meant to know, dw about it

[Barelythere]

You are still a virgin untill you have had vaginal penetration with his penis, so dont worry about that :) you didnt do anything bad, it was your first time trying it and you cant expect to be an expert first time, you are not a slut, just well young! :p you could possibly get herpes from a blow job, but honestly i dont think you would have given one with how it would have looked, but if your worried u can go to a family planning clinic and get tested, but you most definatly cannot get pregnant from that

now i duno if i can give like sexual acts advice or not so if not a mod can delete this bit, :P but with the blow job, yeh it tastes nasty and salty, but if he drinks pineapple juce it can make it abit better; use your tonge to make it better, watch out for your teeth and use your hand as well and if u are holding his penis at the same time u can usually feel when he is about to go and put your tonge over it so it hits the under side of your tonge and doesnt make u gag, and its perfectly fine to spit it out, that is personal preference!

[kelsey_kelsey]

where do you buy a sex toy?
please help me out, i always get orasims and i really need one.
all my friends have one so i want one so i know what it feels like.

[Barelythere]

ann summers

[Helloi]

Yes you are still a virgin, Not in any possible way could you be pregnant from the expierience and there are possibilities of STD's, such as Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, Herpes, HIV, HPV, NGU, Syphilis, Yeast Infections. I personally don't think your boyfriend took advantage of you as you always have a choice, and personally think you are far too young, and by the way talk to someone because harassment is against the law. I suggest you also tell a parent or guardian.

[Dale]

This could actually be a count of rape since you weren't wise or had no understanding of what you were doing. I suggest talking about this over with a school or personal councillor.

[OnceMoreWithFeeling]

that is so wornge of him

[Patchy]

This thread is pretty old and the user hasn't returned therefore wont need answers.

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