fighting

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my mom and I fight over little things and it just makes me depressed....my mom has that kind of personality like being aggressive and it makes me said and hurts our relationship when we fight.. what should I do ???

[Φρανκομβριτ]

Tell her. Let her know it. If it's jsut her personality, I'm sure she'll work with you to come up with some soloutions.

[-Silence]

I agree with Rudi, tell her maybe she doesnt realize how it affects you.

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she cant like let things go though so im kinda afraid

[dying lullaby]

tell her that you think she draws things out too long(aka cant let things go)

tell her that you two fighting all of the time hurts you and your relationship and ask if you two can both try to work on it

example
both of you resolve to stop before things get heated and decide (outloud & nicely) if its really worth getting into a fight over...
or
when things do get to heated ask if you can both calm down and have a reasonible conversation.


my mom and i used to fight so horribly i moved out of my house but we got past it by doing the things i suggested among other things. try it, it might work. :)

[Φρανκομβριτ]

What bri said is true. Don't be scared. Your mum cares about you and loves you, and doesn't want to hurt you

[///James///]

i mite take your advice guys. me and my mum get along but like we fight alot. same with me and my dad. trouble is, if i break a branch off a tree, i feel guilty. if i fight with my parents, i feel guilty to, even if they started it. i try and talk to my mum about it but she just shouts back