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DarkWingedAngel
January 25th, 2009, 10:39 AM
well I got the biggest crush on one of my best friends
we talk a lot
she is bi and makes jokes saying she loves me but she thinks im straight
do you think if I told her I was bi/les(leaning more towards girls right now)that it might change anything
I really like her
we have wrestled before I don't know what she thinks when we do
she has tried to hold my hand before and has gotten very close to my lips while wrestling
any ideas on what I should do/say

Aηdy
January 25th, 2009, 10:46 AM
I think you should tell her about your sexuality. Sounds to me like you may have a chance.

DarkWingedAngel
January 25th, 2009, 10:52 AM
Well I don't know if she likes me or not. and I don't wanna ruin what I have worked for.

byee
January 25th, 2009, 11:22 AM
The next time she says she loves you but thinks you're straight, ask her if that makes a difference, and what that difference would mean.

You need to open the convo up a bit, see where it goes. Based on her response, you could then decide if you want to reveal yourself to her.

DarkWingedAngel
January 25th, 2009, 11:58 AM
ok thanks

rsc4life
January 25th, 2009, 12:20 PM
I think you should tell her about your sexuality. You've got a good chance, and as you like her... Go for it!

DarkWingedAngel
January 25th, 2009, 01:58 PM
w00t
I took your advise Sam
she does like me
I started off slow and all
but yea anyways
thanks

byee
January 25th, 2009, 03:01 PM
w00t
I took your advise Sam
she does like me
I started off slow and all
but yea anyways
thanks


LOL! Another satisfied customer.

Glad it worked out! Just go slow.