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more94
January 24th, 2009, 09:52 PM
1.) Whenever I masturbate, I always watch porn, is that normal, cause like idk if girls do that, like I thought it was only guys that watched porn?

2.) I found a long plastic rod (I think there called dildos) in my moms cabinet, and I wanna use it so badly, but idk it might if that's like wrong, it wasn't used or anything, it was wrapped and in a box, but it was on the top shelf of a cabinet that my mom never goes into anymore, should I use it, like could it hurt me?

byee
January 24th, 2009, 09:55 PM
Watching porn is a personal choice, not determined by gender.

Using a dildo is a personal choice, too, but stealing someone else's, regardless if it's been used, isn't, though. If you want one of your own, get one.

Θάνατος
January 24th, 2009, 10:10 PM
1.) Whenever I masturbate, I always watch porn, is that normal, cause like idk if girls do that, like I thought it was only guys that watched porn?

2.) I found a long plastic rod (I think there called dildos) in my moms cabinet, and I wanna use it so badly, but idk it might if that's like wrong, it wasn't used or anything, it was wrapped and in a box, but it was on the top shelf of a cabinet that my mom never goes into anymore, should I use it, like could it hurt me?

OK there is nothing wrong with watching porn.

Using the dildo is a personal choice here if you do decide to use it make sure you wash it before and afterward with warm water and soap.

BeautifulSilence
January 24th, 2009, 10:58 PM
Watching porn is normal - some girls do, some girls don't.

Using items to aid masturbation is totally normal, but if your mum kept something out of the way, do you think you were meant to see it? Probably not. It doesn't necessarily need to be specifically designed to aid masturbation... Anything that is cleaned thoroughly, before and atfer using is fine. And it's cheaper to use everyday items, e.g. hairbrush handle, electronic toothbrush, detachable showerhead etc.

Not too many people like to share their toy's and when someone's gone out of their way to make sure something isn't found, they don't want it to be found. Your mother's sex toy is your mother's sex toy. You shouldn't use something that isn't yours, unless you have permission... Which I doubt you'd get it this case.

I think you'd be better off with something that's already yours. Not only is it actually yours, but you're less likely to hurt yourself; sex toys are usually quite big which could hurt you if you're quite small and sometimes tearing occurs because there's not enough lubrication.

And FYI you have to be over 18 to buy a sex toy - in case you were wondering. They can be quite expensive, but that depends on what you're after... If you really are desperate, maybe get an older friend to buy you one, or you could try asking your mum, using the "you've got one, why can't I have one?!" ;)

DarkWingedAngel
January 24th, 2009, 11:19 PM
I think Laura drove her point right home on this
yes porn is ok to watch just don't make a big habit out of watching it all time

using someone else's "toy" could contribute to some problems
your mom could find out and it could hurt if you don't use it properly
I would start small them work my way up if I were you
not much more I can say about it
just be safe and don't get caught with porn

Viral Death
January 25th, 2009, 01:35 PM
1. Its ok for you watch porn as long as you get pleasure

2. I wouldnt use her sex toy because you could get a std from that ( not saying that your mom has stds) But I think you have to 18 to get a toy maybe you should talk to your mom.

Halibut
February 4th, 2009, 10:03 PM
yes those are both normal

Stark
February 5th, 2009, 05:10 PM
Porn is a personal choice, there is nothing wrong with doing it.
Use the dildo if you want, just make sure it has been cleaned.

iceyfresh
February 5th, 2009, 06:17 PM
watching porn is normal but use of someone "elses" dildo is wrong. there isnt anything wrong wtih using dildo's in general but you should get your own.

Mrred
March 28th, 2009, 10:19 AM
First of all . No watching porn is completely natural slot of people both sexes do it. And second wow you found a dildo great! But think about it how's your mom not gonna find out your using it? Just leave it alone.

BeautifulSilence
March 28th, 2009, 02:14 PM
Good post Mrred, but please don't post in old (more than 4 weeks) threads.

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