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Stewart

January 23rd, 2009, 08:37 PM

I have no idea what sexuality I am.

I get aroused over some girls, but that may be hormones.

I'm not really attracted to guys or girls. I think that girls are hot, and imagine doing stuff with them.

I'm totally confused!

GAH!

I'm going to go crazy. I'm dwelling on it. I just want to know......:(

Oblivion

January 23rd, 2009, 08:40 PM

So you aren't really attracted to either, except girls?
I don't see how that points to anything but straight.
You say you are attracted to girls, and 'not really to guys'

But just wanting to know won't get you an answer; we can't tell you for sure.
You have to figure it out.

Stewart

January 23rd, 2009, 08:44 PM

Well, I'm only 14, so I guess i have time?

Oblivion

January 23rd, 2009, 08:45 PM

You have lots of time ;)
Probably 6-8 years before your hormones settle down.
Although you can decide before then, waiting clears confusion.

byee

January 23rd, 2009, 10:07 PM

Oh, I just answered this, you might search my last post or 2 and read it, it might be very helpful for you.

January 25th, 2009, 04:45 AM

if you dont feel any attraction towards guys then your most likily not gay.

rsc4life

January 25th, 2009, 09:12 AM

Sounds to me like you need to wait it out. Sometimes these things are muddled and confused for a long while.

Axellance

January 26th, 2009, 10:33 AM

I know it can be confusing right now but you will just have to wait till it becomes more clear to you, eventually hormones will die down and you will realize what sex you find more appealing. You also could be bi that's a possibility. Just be whoever you are and focus on being a teen, school, sports, friends and such. To me it just sounds like you are a curious straight teen, nothing wrong with that :)

Θάνατος

January 26th, 2009, 10:38 AM

Well at 14 you are still right in the middle of puberty with all these raging hormones. I would say since you like girls and said that you are not attracted to guys you are definitely straight but you could be straight curious. There is nothing wrong with you and you have a while before you have to decide what your sexuality is.

You could even experiment with a guy and a girl to see if this helps. Remember just because you experiment with a guy it dos not make you gay or bi.

One last thought don't be in a hurry to label yourself you have a lot of time to decide what you are once the hormones settle down.