my problem with my bf

[more94]

1.)the other day I gave my bf a blowjob and he told me he didn't cum a lot, but when he cummed,there was cum everywere, it was soo gross, but I was jw what peole thought of that situation cause now I havnt talked to him and things feel really awkward, also he totaly lied when he said he didn't cum a lot, what should I do

2.)he had a freakishly large dick, like I actualy measured and it was actualy 9" and he's only 14 that isn't normal is it?

[Eskie Dog]

1) I'm sorry I don't really get your question, and I really don't think you have a problem.

2) yes, he's big for his age

and why are you posting in the boy's section?

[sdleader]

Because she wants to ask if its normal, so she is asking the guys.

1) Its not a problem, he told you he didnt cum alot probably because he thought you wouldn't give a blow job if you knew how much he came, that, or he REALLY liked the blow job.

2) He's big for his age. Only 14 and 9"?

[alsoknownas]

1) if you dont like it dont let it go over you :what:

2) 9" is big end of story

[byee]

I suppose the term 'A lot' means different things for different people, but in general, guys do ejaculate *stuff*. It's unclear what your prior experience has been , and what your expectations were. But clearly, based on both your questions and your reaction, maybe you shouldn't be having oral sex for a while, at least until you can prepare yourself and be Ok with it.

It's awkward now b/c you had a really bad experience with him, something happened that you weren't expecting or prepared for, that's a typical reaction. I don't think he 'lied', rather his assesment of himself gave you an impression that was later proved to be incorrect. I don't think he necessarily misled or deceived you intentionally.

You have a couple of choices here: You can tell him that although you enjoy him, you discovered you're not ready to have more sex with him b/c you're not comfortable with it yet, or you can just leave it alone and spend some quality non sexual time with him, enjoy him for the b/f he is, without the sexual part. With time, the experience will fade, and you'll be OK.

[kniwtohynroh]

im not a expert but yes his penis is really long...
i think you should either try better or just idk... try even better?:)

[more94]

alot means like a one of those small glasses full, (i think theyr called shot glasses but idk)

[Viral Death]

1) I think he really wanted a blow job so he lied about how much he cummed

2) Wow that is huge for a 14 I am 13 and mine is 3"

[byee]

alot means like a one of those small glasses full, (i think theyr called shot glasses but idk)


How did you measure this? And the 9" penis? How did you measure that?

Guys ejaculate about a teaspoon or 2, unless they recently ejaculated, in which case it would be less. It might have seemed more b/c of the velocity and distance it went? But, really, 2 tbs. is the max. The glands that produce cum can't store that much stuff.

And most guys have a 5.5-6.0" penis. 9" is really almost impossible. Unless his father was some large domesticated farm animal, the chances of him being quite that large is fairly low.

I think you were unprepared for all this, or maybe he was more developed than the other guys you've been with. Take a step back in the relationship and just enjoy the social and emotional parts, forget about the sex for a while.

[Axellance]

1.)the other day I gave my bf a blow job and he told me he didn't cum a lot, but when he cummed,there was cum everywhere, it was soo gross, but I was jw what people thought of that situation cause now I haven't talked to him and things feel really awkward, also he totally lied when he said he didn't cum a lot, what should I do.

I would not be pissed off about it or even make a big deal about it, it is cum and you should get used to it because that's what happens when men are stimulated, also he might not cum a lot normally but because he was so stimulated and it felt so good he cummed more then normal, he is probably really embarrassed. don't let something so silly some between you two! Also your reaction to something so simple shows you aren't and weren't ready to be doing that.

2.)he had a freakishly large dick, like I actually measured and it was actually 9" and he's only 14 that isn't normal is it?

His penis is large for his age but that shouldn't be a bad thing, nothing is wrong he is just well endowed! normal? yes! common? no!

[drew31793]

yupp thats one huge dick... i am 15 and mines only 7" and thats a normal amount of cum