sex and its affects

[Halibut]

Ok, so me and my friend were talking about sex and here is our debate.
He says that once you have sex with a person you will always be connected to that person and they will have a effect on your soul forever.
And i say that it depends on the person and situation and there personality.
for instance i have had sex with 9 guys. but some of them i was under alot of pressure so i gave in. But those people i felt nothing twards . and they had no effect on my life. But some guys i was connected to. But what do you think. i think it depends on the person, the situation and there personality as some people have sex for entertainment and will have no thought of that person ever again.
what do you think?

[Trickster]

Well, for me i had got pretty close to sex but not completly but still i know a connection when i see one.
With a girl we were close, and we would do alot of fantasy sex, such as phone sex, instant message. It felt good nether the less. When we broke up because we wanted to see other people. we are still great friend and we still flirt occasionally, no awkward situations and its still fun.
Ive been with a guy i was just going out with just because i wanted to get over a guy, we went pretty far, and i couldnt climax. no matter what. I think he was insulted. But other wise it kinda awkward.
With my bf, he turns me on really good, and i do the same for him. We feel a connection, and we can like joke about it, talk about it and feel good and wanna do it again. You gotta feel something for the person for it to be anything enjoyable and feel somthing. If you dont, it like annoymonus sex. You do it, leave and hope to never run into eachother again. SO yea sex and anything close to it, changes alot

[vic203140]

I think iy all b/s if ya want to do it do it if not so be it no 1 owns anyone

[Antares]

Teen Sexuality :arrow: R and D

[Beautiful Obsession]

i think it depends on the situation, if ur in love wiv the person then yeh, but if its just a one off thing cuz uv been drinking etc then prob nott? xx

[Common Sense.]

*Effects.

[Christheman]

i agree

[workingatperfect]

I agree with you.
It really all depends. I've been with 4 guys. The first I was very serious with. sex strengthened our connection a little.
The second was just a friend and at first it stayed that way, but after about a month of strictly sex, things got more personal and we definitely connected on a much deeper level.
3rd guy I'm still just friends with. It didn't change anything between us at all. I still see him as just a friend.
And the most recent.. We have an incredibly strong connection, but it hasn't been affected by sex at all. We were close before, and we haven't gotten much closer.

[momo....]

gud luck

[FreeFall]

It does depend. Someone that just wants fun, they could care less. But if you're in a deep and steady relationship with deep and true feelings for each other, you've just done in what my opinion, is the highest form of love. You'll never forget that person and you're special moments.

[DerBear]

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