First time

[Trickster]

well me and my bf met and well we got along really good. He was really touching and was really nice. We laid down together and then well we started making out, and more and more stuff happened. U get the idea. Well i dont giving oral at all and he doesnt either. After i was done doing oral he said "Wanna do it?" and i thought he was kidding but he wasnt. He didnt have a condom and i was unsure so i said no, he said it was ok.

Im wondering if u can get an STD if both people never had sex before and what can happen and stuff. Or can something happen if u do have it without one.

[Θάνατος]

As long as you have neither had sex or kissed other people who have had oral sex then no you can get get any STDs.

[jjmcray]

As long as you have neither had sex or kissed other people who have had oral sex then no you can get get any STDs.

I'm assuming you meant "CAN'T get any STDs."

Well, that's not entirely true. You can "inherit" (AKA receive at birth) things like AIDs. The only thing to do is talk to your partner about it and use protection.

[theOperaGhost]

As long as you have neither had sex or kissed other people who have had oral sex then no you can get get any STDs.

Yes there are ways, actually. They are doubtful, but possible. You can get HIV from using infected needles (mainly if you shoot up drugs such a heroine, which I'm hoping neither one of you do). There doesn't always have to be sexual activity to pass and contract STDs. Once again, it is unlikely if neither of you have had sex, yet it is entirely possible. I'd always use a condom.

[Trickster]

Well, he doesnt do drugs and neither do I. (Yay us!) so really i was wondering if u could. Im gonna use protection im really not planning to use no protection until like im like forty and middle aged. (Hell im most likely gay so im gonna adopt anyway).
I did hear u can have like STD dormant in you, and then u wont be affected but your partner will. So i was really wondering this.
P.S. Plus its a first time so were gonna need alot of stuff to make it as painless as possible and as pleasurable as possible. COndoms are lubed so it will help alot.