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Lady_Chaos
January 22nd, 2009, 05:25 PM
with the whole "inny" and "outy" thing? lots of people keep saying that "outies" are like.. whores... and its making me insecure because I am a virgin and I have an "outy" I dont understand why people are so mean about it. Is this normal? I mean, I was born this way and lots of people are saying its bad. is it?
AutumnDae
January 22nd, 2009, 06:29 PM
I thought "Inny" and "Outy" referred to your belly button.

If so, then don't worry about it, it means nothing.
Halibut
January 22nd, 2009, 06:44 PM
are you talking about your belly button. if you are its the way your imbellacul(?not sure how to spell)cord falls or is cut off.
if your talking about another area i have no clue
Lady_Chaos
January 22nd, 2009, 07:37 PM
No, not the belly button... I am talking about the vaginal folds... =P I heard it put that way and just decided to say it like that...
Aηdy
January 22nd, 2009, 07:41 PM
I thought "Inny" and "Outy" referred to your belly button.

If so, then don't worry about it, it means nothing.

That's exactly what I thought lol!
AutumnDae
January 22nd, 2009, 07:47 PM
No, not the belly button... I am talking about the vaginal folds... =P I heard it put that way and just decided to say it like that...

Oh, okay. Makes a lot more sense now. I was confused.

Don't worry about it. People just like to make up terms and names for certain things. You know that you are a virgin and that you are not a whore, so why should it matter?
Lady_Chaos
January 22nd, 2009, 07:58 PM
Im just worried what guys will think... (no i am not planning on going out and doin shiz or anything....) when I am ready to have sex... yaknow??
AutumnDae
January 22nd, 2009, 08:38 PM
I've never heard the term like that where I live.

And either way, when you are ready to have sex for the first time, make sure you tell him that you are a virgin. That way he will know. And I doubt he will think anything of your "Inny" or "Outy"
Lady_Chaos
January 22nd, 2009, 09:57 PM
mmokay.. its just that the majority of guys that talk about it say that "outy" is gross
byee
January 22nd, 2009, 10:56 PM
The majority of teenage boys don't know what they're talking about b/c they have no experience and don't have the sense to know not to talk about these things!

The shape of the vulva and labia are somewhat unique to each girl, and although there's commonality, there's still some differences. So, some girls have 'innies' and some' outties', and this has absolutely nothing at all to do with anything other than genetics and basic physiology, NOTHING about virginity.