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TurboDieselBandit
January 22nd, 2009, 03:14 PM
I'm not really sure if I'm a virgin and i really want 2 know others opinions ( btw-by the way-this is 4 my sis. becuz her friend knows her user and she dont want her to know). When i was like 6 or 7 me and (not this same bro. he dont know) brother touched eachother and i gave him a bj, but honestly i had no idea it was wrong, i didnt even know what it was, and ive masturbated, but like i know technically im not a virgen because u know it when into my vagina but like....I don't know, i dont have sex, im absitnant and ive been wondering about this for a really long time so just plz give me some advice.
Θάνατος
January 22nd, 2009, 03:33 PM
OK this will be debated by a lot of people on here.
Some people will say that since you have given a b/j you are not a virgin anymore.
The definition of losing one's virginity is having sexual intercourse. So if you have not had intercourse then you are still a virgin.
I hope this will help your sister out.
TurboDieselBandit
January 22nd, 2009, 04:22 PM
I sure hope so to because she's been like freaking all out about it
OnlyByTheNight.
January 22nd, 2009, 05:28 PM
Id say you are still a virgin as you didnt actualy have sex with him AND you didnt know what you were doing at the time anyway..... so dont worry about it.
Θάνατος
January 22nd, 2009, 05:37 PM
Id say you are still a virgin as you didn't actually have sex with him AND you didn't know what you were doing at the time anyway..... so don't worry about it.
Well not having knowledge of what you are doing do not keep your virginity in tact.
From what you have said, I would say that your sister is still a virgin.
Viral Death
January 25th, 2009, 01:32 PM
I dont think so, having sex is when you lose your virginity
Triceratops
January 28th, 2009, 01:54 PM
I would consider you a virgin, yes.
DarkWingedAngel
January 28th, 2009, 01:58 PM
yep i would consider you a virgin
byee
January 28th, 2009, 02:20 PM
You're a virgin medically (although it's more a social term) until you have penis/vagina intercourse, the penis must enter the vagina.
Religiously, though, you're considered a virgin until you consent to sex, it needs to be consensual, so for those who were raped or abused or otherwise subjected to victimization of some kind and could not obviously consent (or 'agree'), according to most religious doctrine, such victims would still be considered 'virgins'.
monkey
January 31st, 2009, 10:17 PM
You didnt have penetration and it was unwillingly or unknowingly so you are deffinitely a virgin.
nick979
February 1st, 2009, 12:50 AM
Sex=penetration into the vagina.
For males, the word virgin is nothing more that that, a word!
Halibut
February 3rd, 2009, 11:31 PM
naw your still a virgin
nick
February 5th, 2009, 04:49 PM
Well there are 2 sides to it for girls, because there's having sexual intercourse and there's breaking the hymen. Most people would say you're a virgin until you have penetrative sex. I'd agree with that and thats what other people have said before. But if you're a girl there's a technical issue about the hymen. Most people dont give a shit about this but it matters to some cultures and religions. You could break this if you use anything to masterbate with & many girls break it just when doing sport or gym so often its got nothing to do with sex at all.
Sorry if thats a confusing answer, as far as most people are concerned, me too, if you've only done bj & masterbation you'r still a virgin
RebDoomer
February 6th, 2009, 11:46 PM
sorry to burst everyones bubble lol, but if you had any kind of sex, you aren't a virgin. any kind of sex, is sex, a bj is sex, foreplay can be considered sex.
my health teacher taught/told us this and i guess its true then.
mrpenguin
February 7th, 2009, 02:35 PM
sorry to burst everyones bubble lol, but if you had any kind of sex, you aren't a virgin. any kind of sex, is sex, a bj is sex, foreplay can be considered sex.
my health teacher taught/told us this and i guess its true then.
Sorry but BJ's, Masturbating and Foreplay are not forms of sex but are infact sexually acts as others have said Sexual Intercourse is where the Penis goes into the Vagina and ect.
To Wrap this up and from what I've heard your sis (this is who your talking about right?) is a virgin
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