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terminoob
January 20th, 2009, 10:41 PM
Well, I haven't posted a thread in a while, and my last thread here I said I had a dream about this girl who I didn't know if I liked her or not, but I asked her out in my dream and she said yes, so when I woke up the next morning, I knew I liked her.
Now, this happened a while ago, and I realized she's out of my league completely so I don't like her anymore, but now, a dream has come to haunt me.
For a while, I've sort of liked this girl, but I really didn't know if I did or not, and we're friends, not great friends, but friends. If we talk about the smallest thing, we can get off topic so fast and talk about nothing for hours if we actually had the time. Well, a few days ago, I had to think about who to bring to a concert I'm going to next month, and I fell asleep thinking about who to take. Now, this brings me to my dream, I dreamed I was at school, a week or so before the concert, and I still had no one to go with. It was around valentines day, and I was really bummed out. It was at my school and I was sitting down on a stairwell near a door, and the girl came up to me. She asked me what was wrong and all this stuff, and I told her that I had no one to go to the concert with, then she asked me if I liked her. I said yes, then she asked me how come I didn't ask her, and I told her why. So, she told me she'd love to go to the concert...

That was the end of the dream and I woke up, and realized I liked her...
So... this is why I hate dreams, they make me like people out of my league and they dreams never come true, but I can still hope this one does... sorry if this isn't really a question, I just really hate dreams about my love life and I'm sure other people do to...

staying_alive
January 21st, 2009, 03:23 PM
So get closer with her and ask her to the concert! Simple.

Indy
January 21st, 2009, 09:05 PM
I think you subcounsiously think shes out of your league but I think your dreams are trying to tell you something. That maybe you two were made for each other. There's a girl I've known sinse the first grade. I used to have a cruch on her a long time ago, now thats past exc. But whenever she and I do talk, (because she goes to my church and we work the same job) we have an awsome time and feel really close even though she is a totally different social clique. Get to know her more and maybe you two will end up being bf/gf. :D

byee
January 21st, 2009, 09:35 PM
I'm not sure what "out of your league' means exactly, but your brain doesn't quite see it that way! Which in your case is a damn skippy good thing, becuase it's telling you that it takes no responsibility for your ego, which as we all know often gets in the way of the brain.

Ask her out. Let's hope Mr. Ego takes the day off , and allows you the opportunity to see what happens.

Cindex
January 21st, 2009, 10:37 PM
Well what was going to be my suggestion was already taken. So I'll try to add a little.

You said you easily go off topic, so some time when you're off topic, just say, "Hey, would you want to go to a _____ concert?" Hey if she likes the band, more power to you!

terminoob
January 22nd, 2009, 09:12 PM
i would do that, but, we only have one class together, and we sit on opposite ends of the room, she sits close to the door, so whenever the bell rings, shes always out before me and i never see her in the hall, but, i guess i could try the next time i talk to her