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Spin
January 20th, 2009, 02:41 PM
I've been cutting since March of last year, and I know why I started, but I don't know why I keep on doing it. Sometimes I do it because I'm upset but lately I haven't really been that sad. It makes me feel kind of stupid when there are people who have real reasons to cut and now I pretty much just do it to do it. The last time I did it was because I was bored. I wasn't feeling sad or angry or anything, and now I do feel sad and angry because I did it again when I went 18 days without it.

chelsay13
January 20th, 2009, 07:09 PM
OMG i am the exact same lately. I feel like my therapist could be dealing with others whose problems are worse than mine and that need help more than me.

Sapphire
January 21st, 2009, 09:31 AM
The reasons behind your continued self harm do not validate or invalidate your right to help. You are just as worthy of help as everyone else.

Please, seek help before things get too out of hand

Paddy.
January 22nd, 2009, 04:35 PM
Hello spin.

I'm sorry about how you're feeling latley.
When we self harm, We do it as a pressure/anger release; It's a way of helping us get rid of our problems, and it's a tough thing to go through :(

I'm going to give you a PM now and see if your able too discuss what's going on? tell me how your feelings, and i'll see if i can work through this and offer some advice too you if thats ok?

all the best. paddy

eikookmi
January 23rd, 2009, 02:15 AM
MMyeah sometimes i just do it for the sake of doing it or due to boredom

Hyper
January 23rd, 2009, 09:10 AM
There are no real reasons or justifications for doing something stupid and wrong.

And what Sugar & Spice said.

Hayley08
January 23rd, 2009, 10:37 AM
maybe you should see if there is anyone you could speak to weither its a friend, someone at school or going professionaly to get help. take care x

ShatteredGlass
January 23rd, 2009, 07:44 PM
Wow Spin, I know how you feel. Everytime i sit in front of my therapist I'm just like. Here she is wasting her time with me when there could be kids with actual problems. I feel like an f'ing idiot. What the heck is wrong with me?

If you ever need 2 talk feel free to PM me.

Prince_of_Peace
June 5th, 2009, 02:54 PM
I am sorry that you guys are cutting yourself. Bible tells us that the body is the temple of the Holy Spirit. That means that you should respect your own body. Please do not cut yourself. Do you know that when the Armagedon happens, or the end of the world, that Jesus Christ will come to seperate the sheeps from the goats? All souls will return to their bodies and come back to life for the last judgement. Wherever you will go (Heaven or Hell), your soul will be reunite back to your body. Your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit and you should love the gifts God gave you. Please do not harm yourself. There is true freedom if you believe in Jesus Christ. Go to Him. Talk to him. He is the only way, the only truth and the way to get the real Life.

Please do not harm your bodies, they are precious in the eyes of God.

Truth
June 5th, 2009, 07:23 PM
If im correct, SI releases something from your brain, making you feel better. It starts to become some what of an addiction, and maybe it makes your mind and body be closer instead of being seperated.

dstnyisurs
June 5th, 2009, 10:44 PM
Spin darling, I'm sorry you're feeling so blue lately.
It doesn't matter if you think you have a reason to cut. You're entitled to help either way. Don't worry about you not having a "real reason". It could be as simple as a chemical inbalence in your brain. Too much of x, too little of y. Who knows? The point is you deserve help the same as everyone else.

Bambi Brute
June 7th, 2009, 02:23 PM
I am sorry that you guys are cutting yourself. Bible tells us that the body is the temple of the Holy Spirit. That means that you should respect your own body. Please do not cut yourself. Do you know that when the Armagedon happens, or the end of the world, that Jesus Christ will come to seperate the sheeps from the goats? All souls will return to their bodies and come back to life for the last judgement. Wherever you will go (Heaven or Hell), your soul will be reunite back to your body. Your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit and you should love the gifts God gave you. Please do not harm yourself. There is true freedom if you believe in Jesus Christ. Go to Him. Talk to him. He is the only way, the only truth and the way to get the real Life.

Please do not harm your bodies, they are precious in the eyes of God.
I'm not religious. But there's some moral truth to this. Seeking professional help is obviously the first step. It'll help you understand the source to your issue. From there, you'll be helped in the process to fix it.

If that doesn't help, wrap some sheet metal around your arms. (Humor relief intended)

Project Delta
June 9th, 2009, 03:49 AM
Well if you do it due to boredom or otherwise, and not stress its just because you are most likely addicted to the thrill that you get just after you cut. This is a thing you should try and combat by doing something else that gives you that thrill, go out and exercise in the rain if its raining, that gives me a GREAT feeling :)
hope this helped :)