weird birthday

[arron3]

ok so the other day was my bithday and i had one of my friends come over ok so it was like 11 and evey1 has left and my friend was the only one over and he was sleepin over so im in my room with him and he shuts the door and locks it and says u wanna no wat i got u for ur birthday and i said sure and he told me to pull down my pant and i was like wat then he came over and pulled them down and started sucking my penis. i was kinda like wat the fuck, but it felt so good i didnt want him to stop. next thing u no he asked me to do it to him so i felt obligated to do it. so the next morning we woke up at like 930 and my mom cooked us breakfeast and she asked us wat we did last night and he said i showed him his gift and she was like wat did u get him and i was hoping he wasnt goona tell her and he said a fun night. after that he went home and l8r that night he txted me we should do that again sometimes. now as wierd as that sounds i was planning on getting with this girl that i no at skool but it felt so good wat we did the other night and i dnt no if im readi to commit my self with a girl yet bc im starting to have mixed thoughts that im gay. wat do u think

[Oblivion]

Its normal to experiment and have sexual relations with other boys (and it doesn't make you gay) BUT there were some things wrong with your birthday night.
A) He didn't have your permission in the first place. That makes it unacceptable on his part.
B) You probably weren't protected? Thats not safe. If he had an STD like herpes or AIDs, he could have passed it on.
and C) Experimenting with friends can seriously damage a friendship.

[theOperaGhost]

Moved to teen sexuality.

[franky_cranky]

lol i had something like that happen to me:whoops: i guess go for your gut feeling. doesn't mean you can't date a girl. commitment is for marriage and you are so far from that.

[Trickster]

He didnt ask you if it was ok but think about it:
Most boys like oral. And u got it. He just goes and sucks you off isnt what a good friend would do. You may not be gay just like oral alot. If you just like it physically it was just a curious case. Not an emotional one. You have to tell him about it and just talk.

[PuppetPrince]

Yeah ,
of course tons of guys would just go with the flow and just agree with anything.
then again it can damage a friendship.. but its just hormones. i guess. and youll only be dating.. nothing big unless marriage , and your probably really far from that. =D

[Cloud]

What no chocolate id atleast expect chocolate. lol. ut seriously he really shouldnt have odne that wothout ur permission. but hey ifu both enjoyed it then i dont reli think it can damage ur relationship cos if ur fine with it and he was the one hu startedit then there isnt much of a problem just dont let it stop you doin other stuff like getting a girlfriend if thts what u want (oh and make sure u dont do it if u have a girlfriend)

[Green_Fan]

if you like the experience, there are no reasons why you should stop.
he's comfortable whit it, i think so are you, even if you feel awkward because you were going to date a girl.
it's normal, more than normal, you're not the only one whot has been through it, even your parents may, or your neiberhood, or a teacher. sexuality is not tabu. you can still date a girl, if you grow whit her and decide to stop, then you should tell your friend that you don't want it anymore.

[Sceneboy612]

well he really should have asked you, but it seems like he has emotional feelings for you, along with sexual... so you might want to consider what could happen to him if you want to keep him as your friend. and you can do it if you want, but if you do it while you have a gf it is wrong and you should wait until you are single.