Love

[airforce]

I dont know what to do I am in love with a girl named Hali but I just can't tell her

[AllThatIsLeft]

why not?

[BuryYourFlame]

how well do you know her,

is she one of your friends or is she one of those "out of my league" girls?

If she is in your friends group then just try being better friends with her and be there for her, and if you feel that she is warming to you then ask her out,

if she is "out of your league" then try just occasionally saying "hi" and sometimes a bit more, eventually, she will get closer to you, and then do the things above.

I hope this helped, let me know if you have any more questions, or want to tell me how it goes,

Dec

[theOperaGhost]

Moved to relationships and dating.

[airforce]

She is a good friend to me
I want to tell her that I love her but I just can't I dont know why

[BuryYourFlame]

mabye, you could invite her over sometime and just say something like, "This is the way i feel about you and i need to know if you feel the same way". I think i know why you can't tell her: because she is close friend i think you are scared of losing that connection if she turns you down, i cant say what will happen if you ask her, but if you dont ask her then nothing defintely will happen.

let me know if you need any more help,

Dec

[Junky]

mabye, you could invite her over sometime and just say something like, "This is the way i feel about you and i need to know if you feel the same way". I think i know why you can't tell her: because she is close friend i think you are scared of losing that connection if she turns you down, i cant say what will happen if you ask her, but if you dont ask her then nothing defintely will happen.

let me know if you need any more help,

Dec
Please DON'T do this, at least at your house. It puts you in an awkward position but it makes it even more awkward if she doesn't feel the same way especially at your house.:cool:

[BuryYourFlame]

yeh, i agree with "Junky", dont invite her over, but i still stand by what i said about telling her,

Dec

[Tessa_R.]

ok im a girl and so i would know just go right up too her and tell her flat out it will be ok

[airforce]

I think I can't tell her becasue she might not be my friend

[xXJDXx]

i felt tht way once
i didnt tell him n i felt bad after tht bt a mutual frnd told him n thngs were wierd 4 a wile but thn they got bettr

[airforce]

strange thing is that she found out but then forgot about it so i dont know if she still knows

[xXJDXx]

strange thing is that she found out but then forgot about it so i dont know if she still knows

im sure she didnt 4get
girls dont 4get important stuf like tht very much

wht makes u think she 4got?

[airforce]

when she found out she did not want to be my friend but now she is my friend

[Cindex]

Sometimes it just makes girls nervous. Do you love her because she's your friend, or you have feelings like in a relationship? Maybe she thought it was the one she didn't want and it scared her.

She still knows. People don't forget when others love them.

[xXJDXx]

when she found out she did not want to be my friend but now she is my friend

trust me ive been thru this b4
she didnt 4get she jus missed ur friendship with her

it was probs a lil awekward 4 her at first but she missed ur friendship so she got ovr the awekwardness

[airforce]

so then when would be a good time to tell her that I love her

[xXJDXx]

well u hav 2 keep in mind tht if u tell her she mite get awekward agin
so only tel her if u feel like u hav 2 otherwise ur friendship mite b on the lnie

but if u tel her n she dus get awekward itll be like lasttime n she wil probs get ovr it

[airforce]

I wish I had her number so I could tell her like that but I dont know how to ask her for it

[xXJDXx]

just ask her for it
friends usually have each others numbers rite? so its not a big deal
if u hav a cell phone just wip it out n be like 'hey wut's yo numba?'

but if u tel her u luv her u should tel her in person it means more tht way

[airforce]

I'm not a person who likes to ask for stuff

[xXJDXx]

wel if ur not willing to ask for it ur nvr gonna get it

[airforce]

I hate love

[xXJDXx]

story of my life

[airforce]

I had a dream about Hali last night is that good

[Θάνατος]

Well have you told this girl that you love yer yet. I think that since you can't get her out of your mind that you need to tell from looking at your previous post it looks like she knows any way so you should tell her.

There are a couple of ways of doing this. You could walk up to her directly and tell her. You could get her number from a friend and call her or text her. You could leave a note in her locker at school and hope that she is the person who gets the note. You could have one of your friends give her a note from you.

Well good luck I hope that you will find one of my suggestions useful.

[airforce]

I just dont know when to tell her

[xXJDXx]

dont jus say it out of the blue
wait until ur alone with her and talking about something kinda serious it means more tht way

[airforce]

that is just what I'm trying to do but when ever I see her we r not alone

[Archer600]

Well I've ended up telling people I love them in the past and every time I have nothing good has come as a result so be careful how u tell her

[airforce]

So then how should I tell her

I am thinking of a way to tell her

What I do is write a note to her give it to one of my friends who know I like her and have her put the note in hali's locker I just dont know what to right

[airforce]

it seems like I am lossing hali because she is talking a lot with another kid I mean they are doing stuff that she doesn't want me to do

[xXJDXx]

wut kind of stuff?

[airforce]

I dont know

she talks to him more than me

She seems like she likes the other kid more than she likes me

I tried to get her number but she said not now what would that me

Oh and I since I see her three times every other day would that mean I have a better chance. And what can I do that will get me a better chance

[xXJDXx]

i mean if she doesnt like u she doesnt like u
u cant make someone like u

as for the not now thing idk
girls r confusing

[airforce]

What can I do though so she will like me more I mean today I gave her some candy

I think I am love sick

I have a friend who can talk to her but I dont know what togave her say and I really hope she likes me

I got her number ok but I did not get it from her because when she tells me it I am going to guess it right

[xXJDXx]

u cant do anything to make her like u more

[airforce]

well she knows I have it plus I sit next to he in class to help her out

[xXJDXx]

...Is this a joke?

[airforce]

what that is why I sit next to her so I can help her out making her like me more

[xXJDXx]

Does she even want help?

[airforce]

I think she does because she got a D on the exam and I got a B
plus I wanted to help her out plus get to know her more

[xXJDXx]

Yes I realize that you want to get to know her more/whatever.

But some people are satisfied with D's.
She makes bad grades. Why do you want her anyway?

[triplethreat40]

Well, it's an excuse for you two to spend some personal time together. You could suggest you go to chipotle and get food while you work, or someother similar food place.

But there is no way you can make her love you more. You can just keep being her friend, and let her know that you will always be there.

This similar type thing happened to me. here's how it went.
*long txt conversation about something stupid*
guy: do you mind if i ask you a weird question?
me: shoot. I'm a pro at weird.
guy: do you have a boyfriend?
me: kindofsortamaybe. meaning mostlikely in the next few days I will.
guy:that makes sence.
me: that wasn't so weird now was it?
guy: but why I asked might be.
me: ah, I see.
guy: so will this make things weird?
me: well the way I see it if you don't make it weird and I don't make it weird then it won't be weird. I still want you as a friend.
guy: excellent logic.
me: *bows*

later
guy: so am I doing ok not making it weird?
me: oh yeah, great. I hadn't thought about that in a while.
guy: thats good. I can tell you don't like me like that and I still want to be friends.

So it all worked out fine and dandy. I don't like him like that, and there's no way he can make me right now. We're still good friends. But for you it might turn out even better and she might like you back, and just not be showing it very well.

best of luck!

[airforce]

the bad thing she can't have a bf
I knew sitting next to her would be good because I found out her weight and she tells no one that
I also don't know why I like her

[xXJDXx]

She sounds like a real loser to me.

[Oblivion]

She sounds like a real loser to me.

Is that necessary?
No. And seeing as it didn't help anyone either, it would be considered spam.

[triplethreat40]

Ouch. So no matter how much you like her, you can only be good friends. perhaps romantic friends, but it won't be going anywhere fast. So enjoy her friendship, but flirting a bit would be fine too ;)

[airforce]

Well she can't have one yet
plus I don't know what to get her

[Archer600]

k really look at this. i dont want to seem like a bad person but if u actualy did love her u would just tell her and wouldnt care what her or anyone else thought. really give this some thought in the end u will probubly find u dont actualy love her. besides u got ur whole life ahead of u and therre are many fish in the sea dont just try to catch one

[airforce]

I know I truely love her because I had a couple of dreams about her and when I have a dream about someone that means I love them

[heartbroke9887]

Heres what I would do.
-Tell her that you MIGHT have a party, and you want to know her number so that you can
call her and give her the info on the party.
-Then sometime in the next week tell her that you decided not to have the party.
-Then sometime the next week, call her and talk and get to know her VERY VERY well. -------Come to know her so much that she would love you, and will love you.
Its simple.

[airforce]

I have her number and she knows it
just don't know what to do now

[xXJDXx]

Well she can't have one yet
plus I don't know what to get her
Why are you getting her something?

I know I truely love her because I had a couple of dreams about her and when I have a dream about someone that means I love them
Dude. How many people have you loved? And, how old are you? It honestly seems to me like you just like her a fair amount.

[Halibut]

tell her. or else you will go on in life not knowing what happnd

[airforce]

I have a bad memory but its coming up in feb
I want to get her something nice but what

[xXJDXx]

^^What's coming up in February?

[triplethreat40]

Well, whatever's coming up in february, i suggest going shopping with your sister(or someone or that nature who is familliar with both of you). earrings can never fail as long as they match her look, and a sister type person should be able to help with that.

But it sounds like you could just tell her happy birthday and give her a hug. You could organize some mutual friends for a movie, and all chip in to treat her to the whole thing.

[Archer600]

I know I truely love her because I had a couple of dreams about her and when I have a dream about someone that means I love them
That's total bull shit and you know it I've had plenty of dreams and experiences with girls and I sure as he'll don't love them

[Oblivion]

Ok guys here's the deal:
We can stop telling him how hes not in love etc., and spend our time helping him instead,
or I can lock the thread and end it.

[airforce]

Feb 14 all I know is she likes the jones brothers.

[triplethreat40]

Gross. Are you sure you really like a jonas brothers fangirl?
Just kidding, i'm sure you have your reasons.

well, jonas bros. merch from you would be really weird, so i'd stick with jewlry or a hug.

[airforce]

what kinds jewlry

[xXJDXx]

If you guys are friends, shouldn't you know more about her than that she likes the JoBros?
I mean, I totally hear ya otherwise. I suck at getting presents for people.

A bracelet could always work.

[airforce]

How can i tell if she likes me

[triplethreat40]

How can i tell if she likes me

hmm... thats hard because different girls react different ways. If a normally sporty and non-girly girl starts giggling around you, then she likes you. Since your girl likes jonas brothers(:guillotine:), i'm thinking that that doesn't apply.

But how I tell if a guy likes me is that I mention being cold, and if he likes me he'll give me his hoodie. or if he's a total creeper, he'll try to put his arm around me. so that's how i do it.

for jewlry, i'd go with earrings if she has her ears pierced. just something simple and silver, easy to match outfits with.

[airforce]

how can I tell her I love her without lossing our friendship
she likes cole sprouse from the suite life of zack and Cody

[Oblivion]

how can I tell her I love her without lossing our friendship
she likes cole sprouse from the suite life of zack and Cody

Thats a gamble.
If you tell her, and she says no, then it will be awkward.
If you tell her, and she says yes, that's good, but if you break up it will be awkward.
Either way, you will gamble the friendship if you ask her out.

[airforce]

I really want to give her something when I tell her

[xXJDXx]

Dude, just tell her.

[airforce]

I don't know how to

[AutumnDae]

If you're hanging out or whatever, just be like "I've been thinking about this, and I have romantic feelings for you. I like you, a lot."

[Dangleman]

Tell her!!!
If she doesn't have the same feelings, it will be awkward for a while, but in my experience that only lasts for like a week!

[liquid ice]

i have the same thing going on with myself and on friday i was gunna just go up and kiss her but then i got scared lol :D but just try to do that when ur out with her somewhere like a movie

[xXJDXx]

I don't know how to

"Uh, hey, so I've been thinking, and I think I love you."

[airforce]

thats good now I just have to wait until we r alone

[xXJDXx]

Good luck!

[airforce]

are girls good at not telling
I am starting to tell her

[airforce]

Very mad now because I told her

[Oblivion]

What went wrong?

[airforce]

Everything

well it happen by text for a bit. When I told her she said she knew. So I guess my friend who said she wouldn't tell did tell

she also said she doesn't like me the way I like I like her.

Please use the edit feature instead of posting right in a row, thanks. -Autumnok

She says she feels sorry for me

[xXJDXx]

She sounds like a meanie.
She shouldn't feel sorry for you. I mean, it's okay for her to not like you back. And it's okay for her to be sorry that she doesn't like you back or that she hurt you. But she shouldn't feel sorry for you.

Anyway, good job for finally getting up the guts to tell her.

[airforce]

I didn't want to tell her but my phone called her, then she txted me back which lead to me having to tell her
I am trying to make her feel bad

[xXJDXx]

Bad idea.

[airforce]

I know.
She seems mad at me
she didn't talk to me at all

[xXJDXx]

Whoa, I wonder why.

[airforce]

she didn't tell me

[xXJDXx]

I was being sarcastic.
It's pretty obvious.

[airforce]

Now I hate her and deleted her from my phone. So thanks guys for trying to help me. That's it guys its over between me and her. Now I lost our friendship.

[jaz08]

Sorry to hear that. Just try to move on. Heartaches are part of loving. Move on and just take the lessons.

[airforce]

another thing is that I had changed so much for her and it seemed like for everything that I changed the more she got farther away from me

[xXJDXx]

I'm pretty sure you didn't love her if you "hate" her so easily.

[Hyper]

another thing is that I had changed so much for her and it seemed like for everything that I changed the more she got farther away from me

And theres your lesson to be learned.

Don't try to be somebody else

[airforce]

no I did love her but now I don't because if she don't like me then I don't like her.

[Hyper]

no I did love her but now I don't because if she don't like me then I don't like her.

Yeah and that exactly says you really don't know the meaning of love..

But lets not argue about that.. Like I said you have a lesosn to be learned from all of this

[airforce]

I dont know what to say to her because I sit next to her.
Looks like I still like her because I just had another dream about her.
What does that mean.

[xXJDXx]

It means you obviously never loved her in the first place, you never hated her, and you never stopped liking her. People don't get over their emotions that quickly.

[airforce]

Now I wish she would be my friend again
how can I tell her I'm sorry

[Camazotz]

I think before you do anything, you rethink your feelings. Take a week and just think about it. You've changed your mind so many times, I don't think you know what you really want. If you feel it's really necessary, just say, "I'm sorry for______. I sincerely apologize and I regret ______. I hope we can remain friends, but if not, I also understand." Or something along those lines.

[airforce]

I hope she allows me to say I'm sorry now if not should I have a friend tell her

[IAMWILL]

100th reply woot!

She will let you say sorry. If she doesn't, that's not right. Be honest, speak your mind, and don't try to say anything not true. You will be fine.

[airforce]

I got number 100 ok
How should I tell her

[IAMWILL]

I got number 100 ok
How should I tell her

You got the 100th post i got the 100th reply from your first post.

Anyway just tell her as you would tell a best friend. Approach her, just say calmly "Hey, I'm sorry *insert what happened here* I just want you to know that I still want to be your friend and I hope you're not mad at me for to long. Then you can either walk away or continue with the conversation if she asks a question.

[airforce]

ok now when should I said it

[IAMWILL]

Well, whenever you can get some alone time with her. I wouldn't do it if she's near her friends, that will be embarrassing, so maybe right after school or before or such. You'll know when to do it, it will feel right.

[airforce]

well I sit next to her in biology

[IAMWILL]

Not, don't do it during school. Maybe if you walk outside the classroom with her at the end of class you can squeeze it in. Better if its at a calm time and at a calm place.

[airforce]

I only she her in math and in biology but I only sit next to her in bio

[IAMWILL]

This being my 250th post, WOOT WOOT!

Well don't you see her as you leave class? Right after school? Talking to her face-to-face isn't the only option, it's just the best one. Maybe call her at night or something instead if you can't do this.

[airforce]

no because she is with friends

[IAMWILL]

Well that's were cell phones come in. It might be your best bet, but I believe that there is times were she's not with her friends

[airforce]

Yea in bio

[emelhairus9]

it's hard to keep on loving someone who doesn't know u exist.. tell her you love her.. who knows.. maybe she feels the sameway too..

[airforce]

I did tell her

[triplethreat40]

do not have a friend tell her!!!!
that will most likely just make her more mad at you than she already is.
tell her yourself, and she will take your courage as a good thing and not slap you.

[airforce]

She changed seats so I don't think she accepted it

[airforce]

I truely think she hates me now

[Haru Taki]

Idk...im kinda in tht situation too....

[airforce]

I need help she now hates me and said I have no life called me ugly and everyone callls me a stalker

[lilthinker]

i have the same problem wid my friend and at the moment any of the fings des people sed would make him laff at me (ive known him all my life)

[Affliction]

hmm i had this same problem just go up to them hold ur breathe and hope for the best :)

[kangaskan240]

give her a note and some chocolate. or maybe a poem? do what you think is best, good luck m8

[lesher]

Agreed with xXJDXx about telling your feeling things :)