sex

[rsibi]

please tell me how to convince a girlfriend to have good sex

[BuryYourFlame]

i dont exactly know what you mean by "good" sex, but taking out the "good" part here is my advice:

If you and your girlfriend are close enough for sex then there will be no convincing needed, be carefull though, you thinking that you two are close enough and her thinking that you two are close enough can sometimes occur at very different stages.

If you think that you guys are ready then you should just talk to her and ask her where SHE thinks you guys are at. If she doesnt think you're close enough, then you're going to have to live with that. If she thinks that you are, well then you do.

I in no way endorse pre-marrital sex, i am just going on the basis that, 1. you probably wont listen to me if i say that you shouldn't and 2. I have no aurthority over you and can't tell you what to do.

Hope this helped even a bit,

Dec

[theOperaGhost]

We aren't allowed to give advice on how to convince or get someone to have sex with you.

I'm going to leave Declan's answer, because I find it to be a wonderful answer, but I'm going to lock this now.