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Koyo
January 17th, 2009, 06:16 PM
when ever i masturbate like 2-3 times a week, i feel like crap.. i regret it and i feel light headed, my hearing gets quiet, and i feel like its disgusting!
Tell me if this is normal...

thiscityisdead
January 17th, 2009, 07:55 PM
its prefectly normal, is it a feeling of guilt or you just feel like crap?

Koyo
January 17th, 2009, 08:07 PM
its prefectly normal, is it a feeling of guilt or you just feel like crap?\
both....

Viral Death
January 17th, 2009, 08:10 PM
Dont feal like crap and gulity it is ok a masturbate why do you feal guilty?

pontiacdriver
January 17th, 2009, 08:16 PM
when ever i masturbate like 2-3 times a week, i feel like crap.. i regret it and i feel light headed, my hearing gets quiet, and i feel like its disgusting!
Tell me if this is normal...

I know what you mean, and when I first started masturbating I felt guilty about it, too. My guess is you feel that you are doing something "adult," and are engaging in some sort of forbidden activity that you may think is only done by folks older than you. However, the fact remains that most boys start puberty in the 11-14 age group, and masturbating is a fact of life for guys. As long as masturbating is not interfering with your life's commitments or obligations, then you are not doing anything wrong. Face it: you have a glut of hormones in you right now which are making you super horny and making you masturbate. You are not doing anything wrong by masturbating as it is a normal biological function. In short, you should not feel guilty for doing something as normal as urinating.

My final word is that if you have issues with religion affecting your views towards masturbation, then just know that pretty much most religions out there want folks to be responsible with their bodies. While the standard of responsibility varies the fundamental fact is that men since the dawn of humanity have been masturbating, and as long as you practice positive sexuality, then you are going to be kosher with most religions.

byee
January 17th, 2009, 09:53 PM
Masturbation is a natural, normal, biological function, that 100% of people do, that just happens to also feel good. It's a natural 'reward' for reproducing!

Psychologically, I think many feel guilty either b/c of a misunderstanding of religious tolerance concerning the practice, or b/c masturbation is something that is 'private', so therefore kinda secret, and it's something that we don't ask permission to do, we just take it upon ourselves to do it. So, since we all know that it's not good to keep secrets, or do something without permission, we feel guilty. The guilt, in an ironic sort of way, indicates that you were brought up well, that you learned some good values. However, they don't really apply to masturbation.

As long as masturbating doesn't get in the way of your life and other responsibilities, and you continue to be a good person, there's nothing to feel regretful over. After a while, you get used to that new urge, it becomes more normal, and therefore more acceptable, too. Until then, don't be too hard on yourself.

Koyo
January 18th, 2009, 01:11 AM
Masturbation is a natural, normal, biological function, that 100% of people do, that just happens to also feel good. It's a natural 'reward' for reproducing!

Psychologically, I think many feel guilty either b/c of a misunderstanding of religious tolerance concerning the practice, or b/c masturbation is something that is 'private', so therefore kinda secret, and it's something that we don't ask permission to do, we just take it upon ourselves to do it. So, since we all know that it's not good to keep secrets, or do something without permission, we feel guilty. The guilt, in an ironic sort of way, indicates that you were brought up well, that you learned some good values. However, they don't really apply to masturbation.

As long as masturbating doesn't get in the way of your life and other responsibilities, and you continue to be a good person, there's nothing to feel regretful over. After a while, you get used to that new urge, it becomes more normal, and therefore more acceptable, too. Until then, don't be too hard on yourself.
its not so much the guilt as much as it is that i feel "drained" afterwards..

notsure101
January 18th, 2009, 01:35 AM
your probly feeling bad and you probly tired after you just jacked it thats why u feel like crap