View Full Version : How to tell your parents......
Daracon
January 14th, 2009, 07:21 PM
Im bisexual and i iv told my parents before but they thought that i wasnt and just experincing something, now i want to tell them again but i dont know too this time because obviusly my other aproach didnt work.:mad:
theOperaGhost
January 14th, 2009, 07:49 PM
Moved from P101 to Teen Sexuality.
Oblivion
January 14th, 2009, 07:58 PM
Well first of all, make sure its the right move- the worst possible thing is to tell your parents before you know its true for sure.
And secondly, if you are sure, the best way is just straight up telling them.
A good tip I heard is doing it when you go out to dinner, so they are inclined to not make a scene and think about it for a while.
Or you could send an email/letter to them if you really aren't up to telling them to their face.
Halibut
January 14th, 2009, 08:19 PM
ya i would say sit them down and tell them your serious that your bi ..but make sure you are first lol ..it could just be a stage..
caseman91
January 25th, 2009, 04:56 PM
i know that when i told my parents about being gay i made sure that i was 100% sure of it... secondly i didn't do it at the same time... i told my mother first, then my father... i'd tell the parent that u are the most comfortable with talking to first, however if u tell one be sure to tell the other... it's better for them to hear from u than to hear from someone else!
Θάνατος
January 25th, 2009, 05:42 PM
i know that when i told my parents about being gay i made sure that i was 100% sure of it... secondly i didn't do it at the same time... i told my mother first, then my father... I'd tell the parent that u are the most comfortable with talking to first, however if u tell one be sure to tell the other... it's better for them to hear from u than to hear from someone else!
I agree it is better to tell the parent that your trust the most and that parent can help you tell the other parent ans help iron things our for you.
I also agree that you should wait until you are 100% sure that you are bi before telling your parents. There is no reason to be in a hurry to tell them or put a label on your self that you might out grown later. It is better to not do something now that you will regret later.
ShatteredWings
January 25th, 2009, 07:30 PM
i'm not sure how old you are.. so i'm gonna assume you're not curious (most people are..)
Just tell 'em.. as long as you know your 'rents won't kick you out
The Batman
January 25th, 2009, 07:36 PM
I made this thing not to long ago maybe it can help.
http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=25667
JacobHerrington
January 26th, 2009, 01:46 AM
oh boy idk how im gonna tell my folks.theyre very conservative and homo phobic it could be as bad as the time i wastrying to change religion( i was just exprimenting with wicca but it wast my cup of tea anyway) and found out i look at porn. both in the same night i might add. a souther tradtional town. im gona be hanged i just knowit
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