can someone tell me if this is normal

[jjddbb93]

when i was about 11 i slept in my m8s and he gt a bone on and dropped his pants and started wanking he then ask me to get my cock out and we started wanking each other off but we also give each other blowjobs but when i stay in his we still does this now and were 15 is this normal but my friend asked weather i would like to try anal sex i would like to try this but i don't know if it's wrong or not BUT I'M NOT GAY :confused::confused:

[Zephyr]

VT HQ -----> Teen Sexuality

[Ryandel]

This is normal in most boys, As pre teens ans mid teens we usually get our hormones much active with all the development. This provokes our interest and gets us to experiment. Yes this is normal . If you're not comfortbale with it though. Then you should know what to do.

[Oblivion]

Its normal to experiment with other boys,
Being gay is whats on inside. Its how you feel about other guys,
Its not a sexual attraction like it is so often portrayed in movies/etc.

But remember, you have to consider the safety (STI/STDs) of it, and you have to consider the emotions of the other guys. If they thought you were in a relationship for instance, it would really hurt them if they realized you wernt on the same page.

[Halibut]

ya usually everyperson goes and trys out the same gender. its normal. but if you really are gay its ok, dont be afraid to come out :)

[TAC1]

You don't have to be gay to experiment with another boy. Just if you do it use protection. Don't forget not go do anything that you're uncomfortable with.

[Cindex]

This is something that seems to come up a bit. It's called being bi-curious.

It's okay to experiment. Although I think 11 may have been a little early, it's perfectly okay. A lot of people will ridicule things like this, but the truth is a lot of people have done it. And if they haven't, they've probably had that little twinge of curiousity.

As said, remember to consider STD's, feelings, and physically harming each other. Anal sex can leave people very sore. Make sure you respect yourself and others.

[thiscityisdead]

its normal, part of puberty, your hormones rushing like a river in rain season lmao what a hillbilly term. anyways lol ive never experimented, dont rele want to, but i have been curious about it, as for the anal sex, if your up for being sore for a couple of days(or vice versa), especially if its the first time, and ALWAYS remember to use protection. =]]

[mr.sexy_bomb]

yeah is normal for guys to experience with each other there is nothing wrong or bad about it

[rsc4life]

Normal enough. Experimenting is normal, don't sweat it.

[byee]

Eventhough we're very quick to determine that just about every urge, feeling, and behavior you experience (or want to experience) is 'normal', I think there are a couple of things to keep in mind when assessing that. First, and foremost, is your own comfort level. Somethig is only "normal "or "OK'" if you're doing it b/c you want to do it, NOT b/c you're being asked or otherwise subtly being influenced by other factors, like fear of rejection, etc. Second, is what your expectations are: Is this just to 'see what it's like'? 'To feel closer to the other person'? etc. The 'best' experiments are b'twn 2 people who have the same expectations.

So, ask yourself these questions concerning your current situation. Are you ready for anal sex, is it somehting you wanted to do independently of your friend's suggestion? And, what do you expect it will be like? That means afterwards as well as durng. Sex is sex, it has a way of changing things b/c the very intimate nature of the act itself tends to stir up lots of powerful feelings.

If you do this, make sure you're both wearing a condom, however.

[PuppetPrince]

im a curious boy. so i guess experimenting is one way too see.. and if you dont really like it. then you found out , some thing new bout yourslef . or you can go in a metal image situation, and image how it would go?

[Lifeguard18]

Yeh it's normal to experimenti never experiment beforevut I would like to see what happens

I never experimented before but I would like to see what its like. I messed up the last part of the sentence in the last post

If you mess it up, just click the edit button instead of double posting ;)
Thanks. :Shattered:

[Θάνατος]

Well since you two have been fooling around since you both were 11 and you are now both 15, I would say that you are no longer experimenting. You are most definitely bi and so is your friend.

There is nothing wrong with doing anal sex just be careful and make sure you are both ready to do it.

Use condoms and be gentle with each other.


Don't be in a hurry to do the anal sex or it won't be that enjoyable. You should start out by fingering and make sure you use plenty of lube.

[Furn_93]

Well its fine.

But, don't do it after you're about 17-19, because once you become adults, and get into serious relationships with other people, it can get very very awkward and pointless as well.

[coolcowssaymoo]

I have a cousin and we fool around by jacking off is this normal? We are both 12

[nick]

If you both want to do it and are really happy about it how can it be wrong?

Like others have said you will need to take it slow use lube if you want to make it work.

[jjddbb93]

thanks for he advice we ended up havig anal sex in the end and we loved it even though we were abit sore afterwards and we have have both discovered that we have real feelings for each other

[Skeln]

Good for you. I'm...well happy for you...I guess. Not quite too sure how to respond to your last post jjddbb93.

[chris__batman]

This is something that seems to come up a bit. It's called being bi-curious.

It's okay to experiment. Although I think 11 may have been a little early, it's perfectly okay. A lot of people will ridicule things like this, but the truth is a lot of people have done it. And if they haven't, they've probably had that little twinge of curiousity.

As said, remember to consider STD's, feelings, and physically harming each other. Anal sex can leave people very sore. Make sure you respect yourself and others.



I have to disagree with this. I dont think that someone who has performed oral sex on someone of the same sex for 4 years and is now contemplating anal sex is "Bi- Curious", regardless of hormones or age. Its ok to enjoy these acts, and you're way too young to start thinking about defining yourself as Gay or Straight or Bisexual, but in this sense, and in my opinion, i dont think that after something that has lasted so long, someone can be classified as straight. I understand that it must be an emotional attatchement to classify yourself as Gay or Bi, but to continue doing this with someone for so long, you have to consider that it goes beyond "Curiosity" and into "Emotional".

[chris__batman]

ohh! Im sorry about posting that up. Must have missed the resolution to this post! Woops. Good for you jjddbb93. As long as you enjoyed it, and you were safe :):)

[charlie w]

just do what u want to do, its your life, but use a condom