Boy gone to my head!!

[NeedyTeen]

Dont know how to delete this post
you all missunderstood what i wrote so just forget it :d :/

[Requin]

Well...you could always try and see which boy you like the most. I know it sounds stupid and obvious..but really that is the only way you'll know.

Talk to 'Boy No 3' more on the internet and in person...and see what you feel about him.

Keep your ears and eyes open about Boy number 2, and see where that goes. As he apparently likes another then just keep open..see what happens.
It's maybe advice you didn't want to hear..but just talk to them and see what happens. Get to know them better, nobody seems to talk to anyone any more??

[byee]

I think you need to chill out a bit here. Boys are nice, but it sounds a wee bit too urgent for you. Maybe that's part of the reason one of them blocked you? 13 Y/O's are just beginning to get these feelings, and they tend to take it real slow. You seem to be in a rush.

You're going to be a teenager for a while, it's all just starting for you. I think it might be wisest to just get comfortable with the idea that guys don't have cooties anymore, that there's something neat about them, and maybe just start off real easy, like talking with them and maybe a little hanging out. You know, real casual stuff, the things you do with your friends who are girls. Let it develop slowly, don't rush it so much.

[Cindex]

Candidate #1 seems out of the question, so I'll leave him out.

Candidate #2 doesn't exactly seem the type to date anyways. You're not even sure if he likes you, and you're dating him? He doesn't sound all that serious.

Candidate #3 seems like he's just trying to be nice. He gave out your email and you were unhappy, but how was he supposed to know? He blocked you/signed off because you were mad, and he didn't want to deal with it. What guy does? You declined his friend request, and that's a little extreme for playing hard to get.

Just a note, don't sneak behind your parents. Just tell whichever one you're closer to that you have a crush, and you want to try dating. Many parents are afraid of their kids growing up. Mine still are. If they say yes, you dont' have to hide and lie. There's no risk of being caught and getting in trouble anymore.

If they say no, I would recommend stopping. I know you probably won't, but that's the way people are.


Good luck.

[Halibut]

take a deep breath. i think you should ask them exactly what they want from you!

[BeautifulSilence]

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