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lol123
January 14th, 2009, 06:43 AM
ive lately been skipping school,doing bad in school and what not.
in middle school and elemantary school i was one of the most popular kids in my whole school..everybody knew me and i had many many friends!but now in highschool i dont have any friends at all.most of my friends (and my girlfriend) when to difrent highschools then me.(thers like 25 highschools in this stupid city)and sometimes i just dont go to school because i have no one to talk to and i get easily bored.i tryed making friends by sitting at ta table with peopel in lunch and by talking ot them during class but i guess there just no intrested.i have told my mom to transfer me to the highschool where my girlfriend goes but she refuses.
any suggestions on how i can make some freinds this late in school?:confused:

Burnthecity
January 15th, 2009, 11:12 AM
You gotta make the effort, go up to some people, start talking to them, get to know them
with time youll have some great friendships.

BeautifulSilence
January 15th, 2009, 12:45 PM
Moved to Family and Friends.

Making friends at school is always going to be hard, because it's when everyone wants to impress everyone else by stabbing people in the back.

The easiest thing to do is join a couple of clubs that YOU find interesting. That way, you can make friends, or at least talk to people who have similar interests.

Friendships take time to develop and starting on having something in common makes a good conversation starting. Just remember to not over exaggerate any part of your personality, if someone gets used to this somewhat fake you, they won't be impressed to find out it's not the real you.

Good luck, and once you get one friend, you can network to making friends with your one. :)

Triceratops
January 17th, 2009, 05:47 AM
Making friends at new schools is sh*t. Unless there are decent people there.
Are there any after school clubs or organisations there? If so join one that best suits your interest because you will have a lot in common with the others in the same club, and then you will make friends :)

Obviously you can't make a ton of best friends instantly, good friendships take time. But there are bound to be really friendly outgoing people there.

If this doesn't work for you, sit down and have a talk with your mom and literally beg her to get you to move schools :P But tell how unhappy your new school is making you and I'm sure she will understand.